2007-03-31 17:07:40 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy Butterfly! 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The 2 main spots are your clitoris and your g-spot. Sometimes it is pretty hard to find the g-spot though as it is inside. There is no one right way because it is different for everyone. Just try to enjoy yourself and don't feel rushed or pressured or it is less likely to happen.
2007-04-01 00:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say there is a best way in general but there is a best way for each individual person that may be different for everybody. First become familiar with the female anatomy. A woman needs direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Getting into a sexual position that allows for this may bring you to the O, but alot of women do not orgasm from penetration only. Some women use a vibrator on their clitoris while having sex, which enables them to reach the big O. Some couples just realize that the girl is not going to get off during penetration, so they focus more on foreplay for getting her off. That would include oral sex, or touching with hands, or the use of toys. You just have to have a partner that you feel comfortable with, and can totally relax with. Don't concentrate to hard on trying to orgasm or that will ruin it. Just relax, and experiment with your partner and various positions, or foreplay.
2007-04-01 01:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Robin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy, If your young and new to all these new feelings as the other lady has said. No Distractions, a hot bath and candles in your room. Soft music allow you to pleasure yourself with soft circular touches around an occasionally on your clitoris will eventually quicken your breathing and fly your soul into A pleasant orgasm.
If we knew your age and experience we'd all be willing to offer other pointers but I'm somewhat reluctant.
2007-04-01 00:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being comfortable and experimenting with direct clitoral stimulation until you get it right.
Having an orgasm is different for everyone and that's really all the advice that I think can be helpful for you.
2007-04-01 00:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to yourself, relax and explore your body. There is no one right or best way. What works for one woman might not work for the next. You will eventually figure out what works for you.
2007-04-01 00:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I orgasm best when im on top! as the penetration is deeper and the thrusting is more intense.
2007-04-01 06:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that your guy is sensitive to your needs and is willing to experiment and perform a lot of foreplay for you - and yeah size and stamina really do matter!.
2007-04-01 00:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what ever turns your crank. Its different for everybody
2007-04-01 00:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a vibrator or Gspot vibrator.
2007-04-01 00:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Neil L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋