i was making out with y bf in my room and he was laying on me and then my mom came in she kicked him out and slaped me!and im like so grounded!i have this horrible felling inside of me thet wont leave.i wish that this never happend!what should i do!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-31 16:20:41 · 45 answers · asked by evee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go tell her why you know what you did was wrong..and that you accept the punishment and will try to regain her trust
2007-03-31 16:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. That horrible feeling you have inside is your conscious, and from the sounds of things... that's good! You knew that what you did was wrong, sinful, and quite disrespectful since it was committed her home. How can she trust you if you do things like this? I'd say this was not the first time, but maybe the first time you got caught. You've made it harder on yourself. You'll have to slowly over time rebuild that trust. It's not gonna be a quick fix and we're back on track. You're sinning against your own body and hurt your mother deeply I'm sure. What you should do it cool it big time with your boyfriend and examine things... get your head cleared and think more than you have. You should talk to your mother. Don't distance yourself from her, but go to her and tell her what you were thinking... reach out to her. Your mother is trying to prepare you for adulthood, and when you're on your own it will be a different story. Make a promise that you won't do such a thing in again, especially in her house. Making out could leave you pregnant, and that'll have major implications on you and your mother. Get focused, share your heart with your mom, and regain her trust. Hope this helps.
2007-03-31 17:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your spelling you need to think more about your school work. The lazines of your typing at least shows some about you. You have to make sure that when you are older that you are able to support yourself so if you get divorced or that boy just runs off and leaves you with a child. How would you get by then? This is the same thing your mother is trying to show you just ih her way in the anger of the moment.
2007-03-31 16:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to your mother. Right now your mother is worried, she scared that if she didn't come in your room at that time you would have had sex and she may be also wondering if you have had sex. Your mother trusted you (she let the boy in your room), now she feels that maybe she put too much trust in you. It's not easy being a parent, you want the best for your kids and you don't want them to make any mistakes along the way, but in the real world we all make mistakes. Apologize and tell her you made a mistake, let her know how you feel, let her know that she can trust you again; She may open up to you and tell you how she feels. .
2007-04-07 16:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.. apologize to your mother. tell her that you know what you did was wrong and that you FULLY accept the punishment. that'll help you regain her trust 2.. don't make out with your boyfriend in her house again unless you know you won't get caught. a kiss here and there wouldn't be all that bad, but that is a bad situation to get caught in. to parents it can look like so much more than what it was meant to be. 3.. after you both cool down a bit, talk to your mom about this. being that she's your mom, she has the right to know what's going on in your life. if this is something you feel comfortable doing, you should truly talk to her so you can kinda get her consent that way she doesn't get so mad next time.
2007-04-07 12:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy was any kind of stand up guy, you wouldn't be in trouble. A stand up guy would never put you in the position that your in. The next thing, your mom isn't mad at you she is very disappointed, and afraid that something could happen to you that would ruin your whole life. Remember if that something happens, usually the guy disappears. Even if he doesn't the life of both of you will change forever. The whole world is open for the both of you. It is TREMENDOUS. don't let a foolish mistake take that away from either of you. Your living in your parents home. remember what they give up to provide for you, and how much they love you. Its a two way street. respect their rules, and they will give you the respect you deserve. show contempt for their rules, and they will treat you like a child.
Hope this helps
Kane
2007-04-08 10:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kane B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I don't agree with the slap I completely understand your moms anger. Talk with your mom. You have to realize that a level of trust was broken and she is probably hurt as well. No matter how old you are you are still her baby. Respect your mothers house and rules and you will slowly regain her trust . I hope you feel better.
2007-04-08 10:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by darlene1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom loves you. She wants to protect you from being hurt. There is nothng wrong with making out. However, are you over the appropriate age to do so? Overdoing will just cause a huge impact on your life.
Believe me, your mom really care about you. You have this horrible feeling because you feel so guilty that you hurt your mom's feeling. Why don't you go apologize to her and promise not to make the same mistake.
I am not suggesting not making out. I myself was at your age at one time. The curiousity will make us try everything new. It takes a lot of outer factors to really enjoy love and sex.
Casual sex will just spoil everything. Making out too easy with your BF will make him think you are easy to have. People tend to not treasure things he can get it easily.
So, choose for yourself.
2007-03-31 16:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmao no offense to u but me and my bf was in a kinda situation no one got slapped thou but her mom sure did embarrassed us...lol..... after a lil time goes bye everything will work out just give it time right now it prolley seems like the whole worlds comin down but when u get my age im 25 by the way like now i can look back and laugh and think i wish that was the only embarrassin thang that has ever happened to me plus its not ur faught IT'S NATURE we will all do it sum time or another....
2007-03-31 16:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf that ya need to chill out for a while do not go so fast with love if your mom sees that you are not hanging around with him at your house maybe it wont be such problem
2007-03-31 17:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by RuntRunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur mom thought u were gonna have sex or something... sit her down, tell her that there was nothing more than kissing happening between u that day.
my mom once caught me making out in my room, except we were standing. so she was just kinda surprized that i have a bf, cuz i never told her.
but i think if i was caught on my bed.... i think i would have had my head ripped off! lol
2007-04-05 09:44:00 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋