okay if you read one of my previous questions you know that my best friend is cheating on his gurl with 3 other gurls and his gf dosent know a thing... today his gf bough his two new pairs of really expensive tennis shoes.... some people tell me its none of my bussines but it really irritates me that he hasnt told her and she is spending so much money on him and she has no clue wats going on.... should i tell her?
2007-03-31 16:19:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is not my best friend he is...
2007-03-31 16:29:26 · update #1
No. You should confront your bestfriend and tell him what he's doing is wrong. Bestfriends are suppose to be there for eachother and helpl them realize whats wrong from right for them to be better person.
2007-03-31 16:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In away you should mind your own buisness, but u wouldnt want the tables to be turned and your the girl getting cheated on. So this is what u can do. Be I spy private Eye. Tske some pictures of him and the other girl(s) with him. Make sure they're good pics ok. Or get the other girl number and get another friend to acted like they are that person and call her. Tell her im ******* your man and tell her that girl name. She would get the hint that he is cheating.
2007-04-08 12:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation, But even though he's your best friend I think you should tell her. It's the right thing to do. If he finds out he might be mad at you for a while, but all you can say to him is that girls are worth more than he thinks they are worth.
Put your self in the girls shoes, would you want to be told? hope this is good advice, Good Luck!
2007-04-08 15:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, she knows. She may act like she doesn't know, she may be afraid that everyone will think less of her for staying with a cheater, so she acts like she's the victim. She also knows that if she gives him expensive gifts he'll continue to see her, albeit not exclusively. I'd say, let it slip, for example,
"Ya know, I was talking to (friend's name here) the other day when I bumped into him and Mikaela at the mall."
That should be all it takes.
2007-04-08 09:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My definition of a best friend who I can trust with my inner most feelings. Someone I can trust not to lie to me and to be there for me.
Your best friend lies to his girl and is not trustworthy at all. In fact, he's a sleaze. Why do you want this type of friend? Turn it around. Would you want someone to tell you? Or would you rather everyone not tell you that you are being made a fool of.
2007-04-06 16:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by alikilee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her, you should. She is your best friend! If she finds out by herself it might be worse. She may find out that you didn't tell her and she might kick you aside. You know what I mean? I know that you think that she might be mad at you but, trust me she won't be as mad as she finds out on her own.
2007-03-31 23:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by justine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,tell her now/today. your not much of a friend to that girl if you don't. how would you feel about being played like a fool??
2007-04-07 08:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that point I'd smack my friend and start screaming at him. One thing my friends are scared of me for is that I'm blunt and tell them what I'm thinking. They thank me and curse me for that reason
2007-03-31 23:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by celestia_night 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM how you feel about the situation... if he says it is none of your business then just don't go around him anymore.
2007-04-08 22:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of courses not. You said that HE is your best friend not her. I know you don't like what he's doing but it's his business and if you get in it you just might end up losing your best friend. Is she worth that?
2007-04-07 01:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Brwneyz1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋