What is it like to live worry free? Whats it like to have a mother who doesnt tell you to run off and find another mom every night? What's it like to live in a four bedroom house? Whats it like?
2007-03-31 13:57:37 · 10 answers · asked by Elizabeth Magic Wings 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Life is never technically "worry free" --- as an adult i'm dealing with pretty much the same life troubles as teenagers (though i suppose on a different scale -- though i've shifted with the scale so maybe not)
I personally live worry free about 75% of the time because i've developed a genuine trust that things always work out
Living worry free, I've determined, has absolutely nothing to do with life-circumstances and everything to do with attitude and behaviors...
2007-03-31 21:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young it seems as though things will always be exactly the way that they have always been.
Soon opportunities will open up for you and all of these thing that are troubling you now will just be memories.
I'm sorry that mom has problems. I'm sure that In her own way she loves you but I realize that often this is hard to believe at times. In a short time you will be going out on your own and you will be able to chose what sort of a life you will have.
Don't get caught up in the idea that money = happiness. Our family does not have a four bedroom house but we do love each other, and treat each other with respect and dignity. I wish you could come and be a part of our family so we could love you too.
Trust me things will get better.
Love and blessings Don
2007-03-31 23:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know honey! Admittedly I don't have the 'mother' problem but worries?? Oh yeah by the sh**load!
I just try to think that when our time comes to be worry free, be independent, etc etc that we will be able to appreciate it so much more than those who seem to sail through life without a care in the world. Ultimately we will be much better people, well rounded and knowledgeable!
2007-03-31 21:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're worry-free, life more or less consists of the perpetual surprise of one's own existence. There's no judgement of one's situation, since there's no need for judgement if you're not worried.
What others consider good or bad is simply 'what is'...and no conclusions are drawn as one is completely occupied by submersion in the moment.
...with that said though, most people who have nothing to worry about still worry...and most who should be more concerned are not.
...but that's no cause for worry. Non-attatchment...neither detatchment or attatchment...life is like breathing in and breathing out. Rejecting breath altogether is suffering, and holding one's breath is also suffering...accepting the breathing process itself - nothing to worry about.
-Rob
2007-03-31 21:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rob S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will live more vigourously and joyfully, if you are CREATIVITY.
If you are just creative, you will become uncreative because of the environment.
If you want to succeed, you should not strain your brain and hurry yourself.
Don't ever cry "I want to succeed", "this is not good".
Cry out your ideas and imagination, you are not yourself.
The slef can't be something stupid, which can't knnow how to be effective. Even if it knows, it can't do anything with knowledges.
It's vain to learn, it's vain to train yourself: all sportman get weaker as time past.
However, be CREATIVITY, i.e. never cry "I am losing time" or "It's dangerous" or "thing about the future".
2007-03-31 21:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job. Get a job and save money. Get a full-time job if you aren't a student. Thank God you have some control over your life. Don't tell her why you're working. Keep your life important. Arrange a legal move and move in with a neighbor.
2007-03-31 21:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry you have such a difficult life.
Please try to find positives in your life. And focus on them. It will make your life bearable until you can afford to live independently.
2007-04-01 00:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some mothers don't deserve children.
Blessings and I hope that you get to know what this is like on your own.
2007-03-31 21:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by TiGeR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wonderful.
Get your education so you can make something of yourself. You'll be independent.
You can buy your 4 bedroom house.
Go for it!!
2007-03-31 21:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sucks because you get used to not worrying about anything and then your grades start to slip becaue your not worrying about them
2007-03-31 21:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by ♫That'll be the Day♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋