Refractory period in ˝fun˝?

Question

I just found that I have this.
I have it since I got the sperm at age of 12. but I started masturbating when I was 11 and I was masturbating with no problem, orgasm after orgasm.
but then when I got the sperm, I couldnt masturbate anymore after first orgasm. mood just changed. it also hurts a little bit. and its also very hard to get next orgasm. but when I get next orgasm, then its small, I barely feel it.

I am not worried now but in the future when I will make kids, I will have to satisfy her. and I dont wanna lose the ˝fun˝ after one climax.

any advice?

please, serious answers only.

thank you.

this was also confusing my sexual orientation. but now I finally admited that Im bisexual.

Answer 1

Most adult men lose erection after one ejaculation and can't get erect again for several hours. You can satisfy your wife by holding back on your own climax until she has climaxed multiple times. That takes some self control, but practice makes perfect, and practicing is quite enjoyable in itself.

Answer 2

You are fine. nothing wrong with in masturbating.
In the first orgasm there is more semen comes out and next orgasm in short time less semen comes out.
after first orgasm if u go for next orgasm in short time then time to make orgasm increases. so u feel little tired. there is nothing loss of fun. it is like appetite. when u see food and hungry u eat it. once u r satisfied then how good the food will be but u wont eat anymore but after 4-5 hours when u r hungry again then u will eat food. same way is the sex. when u r hungry u enjoy it more and when u r satisfied u enjoy less.
and there is nothing to do with women's satisfaction and producing kids. even if u come in 10 seconds inside woman's vagina then she can be pregnant.

about the bi sexuality you are fine. Human have diverse sexuality, if it is distressed by yr bi sexuality then consult psychiatrist. but it is normal to have bi sexuality unless it is harming relations.

Answer 3

Most guys can't ejaculate twice or more without losing their erection. And the few that can, its usually weaker the second time. It has nothing to do with being straight, gay or bi.