My ex-husband and I, who are good friends, were talking about, if, in the future, we were to ever get remarried to others, would it be appropriate to invite one another to our respective weddings? We have a child together and are great friends. How would you feel if your fiancee/fiance wanted to invite an ex-spouse?
2007-03-31 13:05:03 · 10 answers · asked by VHagerty 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think under these circumstances, it would be perfectly fine--lovely in fact, to invite him. Does every divorce mean you have made an eternal enemy? No. What a good example you can be to others, about how to be an adult--a mature adult. Hurrah for you both and your child. Sardine, on the other hand---is a pig.
2007-03-31 13:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Nisey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would discuss the wedding plans with the ex but don't invite them. You and the ex might be ok with it, the new hubby might even SAY they are ok with it but when it really came down to it, I think it would bother the new hubby or even drag up old memories for you or the ex. Play it safe and start it out fresh with the new spouse. I wasn't married to my son's dad but we were together for 10 years. I didn't invite him to my wedding and I get along great with him but he is part of my past. I think it would have made him uncomfortable and especially my son.
2007-03-31 15:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Roslyn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this became intentional it became fairly tacky to ask you to the bathe w/o inviting you to the marriage. it would tick me off too if this befell to me! Too undesirable you already despatched the present. i'd call the bride's mom to make clean or embarrass, even with the case would nicely be: "i became invited to the bathe, yet by no potential received an invite to the marriage. i'm questioning if perhaps my invitation became lost interior the mail." And from time to time, that's. My father and mother are making plans their anniversary party, and each of the clergy at their synagogue received an invite except the top rabbi. He wasn't constructive even if he might want to assert some thing, yet he spoke up. My father and mother are literally investigating even if there became a mix up on the invites keep or the positioned up workplace. a minimum of one different man or woman did not receive their invitation both.
2016-10-17 22:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by kenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you and your ex spouse are good friends is fantastic. You invite your good friends to your wedding so why not.
2007-03-31 13:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a problem if I knew the ex and I was absolutely sure that they were just friends.
2007-03-31 13:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are still close, I wouldn't invite him to my wedding....its just not right.......
2007-03-31 14:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell your ex-husband that he's welcome to come to your wedding, but if he feels uncomfortable doing so, then you'll understand.
2007-03-31 13:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfertable with it then you should tell you spouse but if you dont mind then go for it owell
2007-03-31 13:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both of you are friendly with each other, why not??
2007-03-31 13:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not
2007-03-31 15:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋