One of my really good friends that i met this year is getting REALLY annoying!!!! I cant take it anymore! She is alsways where I am, andto make matters worse we have a LOT of classes together at school. Iove her like a sis, but itis getting too far.....how do i tell hr without making her sad or upset????
2007-03-31 12:51:57 · 17 answers · asked by Meaghan D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just tell her that u love her as a sister but u want to have other friends to and that u think her finding other frineds and that u can still be friends ull just have others to
2007-03-31 13:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by rostery chicken head 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her like a sister but sometimes even sisters need a little space now and then. Let her know you enjoy the friendship but right now you need some space and want to discover some new things right now in your life. Let her know the time apart will be good for you both and when you do meet up you'll have lots of stuff to talk about. If she is a real friend she should understand.
2007-04-08 02:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some elbow room. You really don't have to say anything to her. Just start going to different places and don't ask her to go. There are many museums, symphonies, and plays which you can attend solo.
But, before you decide to cut her out of your life completely, think about how you would feel if all of your other friends (male and female) leave you alone and give you your space as well. That opens the door to loneliness. Is that really what you want?
2007-03-31 21:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I think in every relationship each one has to have his own space...you could love deeply a person but you have to let him (or her) breath... so...I think, cause you are such a good friend of her, that you have to tell her, if you do it with kind she´ll understand! everyone needs independence!! if not, the relationship will be a sick dependency
2007-04-08 15:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav a frend exactly lyk tht!! ok 1st tel her how u feel jus say"hey i thnk ur gettng a littl 2 clingy but i stil luv u lyk a sis nd still want 2 be ur frend but i thnk u need 2 back off a littl" or sumthng lyk tht.
hope tht helps. good luck.
2007-04-08 13:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell her that you think of her as a sis but you need some space. If she's really your friend she'll except what you 've said. good luck!
2007-04-08 15:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to say something to her if you dont want to hurt her. just start spending less time with her. but i think you should really try to tell her because it might hurt her to see you hanging out with people and not including her. just tell her that you wanna spend less time together because youve heard that spending too much time together can make people start to fight (its true). and if she seems hurt tell her that you guys can still hang out, that it doesnt mean you have to stop being friends. i hope this works out for ya.
2007-04-08 19:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they need to back off a little bit in a nice way, tell them you need space.
2007-04-08 13:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by CW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not an easy way to tell someone something like that. but I think the answers you have gotten are pretty good. take their advice and pray
2007-04-08 18:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are tired of her following you. Tell her if it's more of you she wants then jsut give her your cell number. Hang out with her and then she'll stop bugging you in school because she needs your attention.
2007-04-07 14:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by SuP3RmAn67 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋