My wife has never been able to climax from just intercourse. I've tried all kinds of positions, toys, etc. I'm only about 6 inches long and 1 and 1/4 inch thick. Is size the problem? I can make her climax other ways, but wish I could make her happy with my package. Is it true that some woman can't climax from just intercourse?
2007-03-31 11:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. X 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I almost always do cunnilingus before. I'd like to think that I'm good at it, It's really intimate for me and I feel like if I can make her feel really good that makes me feel good. I tried the vibe eggs on her clitoris while we have intercourse. She has climaed once before when I ejaculated inside her. But usally when it feels really good for me is when it starts to feel really good for her. But even if after I climax, I go back in and go longer she it feels good to her but never to the point of climax. It kinda makes me feel like I'm a sub-par lover, and I want to be a great lover. She is the love of my life and I want her to know that I want her and will do anything for her to feel good. I heard there was a secret pressure point that is located somewhere on a man that can stop his climax, is this fact or fiction?
2007-03-31 13:06:41 · update #1
I've never tried any sexual enhancement drugs, I don't seem to have any trouble rising to the occasion, just staying power. I'm also circumsized and I wonder if that's one reason that I am so sensitive down there.
2007-03-31 13:09:17 · update #2
It sounds as if I have the same problem as your wife. I very rarely ever climax during sex, only in certain positions. My "g-spot" in not inside the vagina like most people like to believe it is. (Excuse my wording, I do not know the correct terms, lol) As long as the top of my clitoris is being stimulated I usually have an orgasm. Doggy-style usually works best, because your goods are hitting the spot. Or try stimulating her there with your fingers during sex, it is quite easy if you figure out the right positions to make it possible. As long as she feels good and doesn't have a big problem with not climaxing during sex, then I'd say leave it go. It really sucks, and my husbands wishes I could too, but I've kind of learned to just deal with it. Size ususally isn't the problem, either.
2007-03-31 13:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! That is one of the biggest dis-service porn movies have done to the female population .. and the male population really. Some women can climax from intercourse alone, but a lot need clitoral stimulation for really intense climaxes. Also, many women can climax from nipply play too. Size doesn't make much difference ... unless you're talking about centimeters. Start seeing your whole body and your partners (not just one part) as sexual capable of giving pleasure to a partner and receiving pleasure. Experiment! It's not the size of the equipment that counts, but how you use it!
2007-03-31 12:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally true! Women are built sooo differently from men.. and it's great that you want to take step's to help her achieve orgasm...
I'm a firm believer that size dosen't matter.. it's what you do with what you have that truly counts...
You say you have used toys... what about a small vibe egg externally during intercourse... will make most women go over the top ....
Also be paitent with her.. don't rush or hurry the event...
2007-03-31 12:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by gin_in_mi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Engaging a woman in cunnilingus, prior to coitus, may make her more responsive.
You also, may want to consider, the amino acid L-Arginine; it promotes circulation. It will make a woman's labia majora, more engorged, and a man's penis more stout. It is the core ingredient, in many of the "natural sexual enhancement formulas".
2007-03-31 12:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women need stimulation to the external genitalia
2007-03-31 12:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by heynow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋