My best friend Kayla is being really mean 2 me. This isnt the 1st time she does it all the time should i give her a 2nd chance. She made a really mean joke to see me breaking down and i did. her new friend Jen keeps saying all these mean things about me while kayla just laughs> i really want to be friends w/ kayla but she doesnt respect my feelings
2007-03-31 11:14:43 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't waste your time on Kayla. As hard as that might be for you, if she's backstabbing you for some new girl Jen, do NOT give her your attention. She's not worth it if she's gonna be a jerk like that. Trust me.
2007-03-31 11:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kayla isnt a good friend. Find some new friends that actually respect you.
2007-03-31 18:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by lovleylaolady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's sad to hear that you want someone like her to be your friend. why do you want to be around people who disrespect you? girl, if you don't figure this one out you are going to have some very serious problems for sure as you get older.
there's a reason why you're wanting to be around people who don't respect you so see a counselor, because if you don't, you're going to keep running into the same problems and you'll lose everything you got, and that includes what's left of your self respect. and you'll never forgive yourself.
get out of it while you can, save yourself, be kind to yourself, choose to be around people who respect you and support you and who are nice. otherwise you're going to get yourself all emotionally beat up and you'll start acting like some battered and abused dog and then no one will care for you.
your so-called friend ain't no friend and she's just taking advantage of your lack of spine. she's mean to you because you let her be. and if she's nice sometimes and asks you to forgive her it's only because she has little bouts of guilt that poke at her from time to time, but she ain't for real. mean people suck. and you should get away from her while you can. she thinks you're a joke and everyone knows it.
2007-03-31 18:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Squeak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm really sorry. I know how you feel. My friends were mean to mean also. They would have sleepovers every weekened and NEVER invite me.
To help you i would suggest talking to her. If this doesn't work and she is still making fun of you she is DEFFINITLY not worth your time. No one deserves to have horrible friends. I know my life was horrible when i was friends with them, but now i don't talk to them and I am much happier
Good luck!
2007-03-31 18:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dancer247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but she is no kind of friend. A friend will be there and stick you for you when no one else will.
I am sure u are young, so go out and just find a friend worthy of your friendship. good luck!
2007-03-31 18:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by KRAZEDnKONFUSED 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends make mistakes! BUT more than once is just too much. shes not a real friend if she treats you that way. tell her how you feel and tell her you don't want to be friends anymore. thats what i would do anyways :]
2007-03-31 18:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by rachel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend, find new friends. Life is too short to having only one best friend.
2007-03-31 18:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry..im the type of girl who doesn't put up w/that kind of stuff. if it was me...i would knock the f*** outta her but i wouldn't advise that for you....choose some new friends that don't constantly put you down.
2007-03-31 18:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by drummer chic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of best friend is she if she does this to you??
Who need enemies when you have friends like this?
Get away from that poison...it will kill your soul!
2007-03-31 18:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"A friend loveth at all times" (Pro 17:17)
2007-03-31 18:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋