im really mad rite now cuz my best friend in the whole world didnt invite me to her bday. i didnt do anything bad to her. im not going to ask her if im invited cuz then it`ll seem like im begging. what should i do?
2007-03-31 10:02:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
y would a best friend not invite u
1. she might not think you need inviting as she thinks your in her a list and not need an invite cause your coming anyway
2.she does not hold you as a best friend the way you do her
3.you annoy her with your clingness
4.she knows there might be a risk of no one turning up if your there
5.she is part of the local it crowd and your on the outer circle of it
6.she has a wider circle of friends than you know
i think the first one myself
2007-03-31 10:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by logster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would wait a little. Maybe she is inviting you and just hasn't gotten around to it yet. But if she doesn't invite you like a day before her party, I would have a good friend go up to her and ask her about it. This way, if she didn't want to invite you, you won't be as embarrassed as if you had asked her in person and also, if she had just fogotten and was planning on inviting you or maybe surprising you, it won't be spoiled. I hope this helps~!
2007-03-31 10:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't have enough room to invite you or enough money so don't think of it as a bad thing. Maybe she's not having a party and inviting friends. I don't know. Talk to her about the party but don't ask about why you weren't invited and if she doesn't invite you after that, then something is wrong.
2007-03-31 10:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 02:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didnt invite you then she obviously aint ya best mate ! you must have done summat to her without knowing or she just assumes ur cummun so she dosnt need to inite her , just bring it up in convo like 'what ya doin for ya bday then '
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2007-03-31 10:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time anything cumz up just like don't invite her and if she axs u y u did not invite her then just tell her cause u did not want 2 and u think that she iz a lil 2 stuck up cause she did not invite u 2 her party so ya and tell her that mackie said se'z a stuck up lil brat trust me i'm head cheerleader at my school and everyone loves me and thats wut i did 2 this one gurl named ashley and she iz like always begging me she like worships me now wish
.u the best of luck **kiss kiss**
2007-03-31 10:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by {{i ♥ muh prince}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, you shouldn't ask her because it might look like you are trolling for an invitation. Are you sure she didn't not invite you on purpose?
2007-03-31 10:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get her a card and give it to her anyway the next time you see her. Kill her with kindness. Maybe there is a reason you do not know about yet. Be the kind one and get her a card like you would normally. Give her a birthday hug.
2007-03-31 10:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should casually mention her birthday and ask her what she wants and she might invite you or better yet just forget about it its her fault because shell be missing out
2007-03-31 10:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by <3 megan baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend? really? wow! MAybe she just forgot or maybr its just a party for family? Ask her. like not ifyou're invited but like if shes having one then ask her who shes inviting (don't mention yourself)
2007-03-31 10:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by A Randome Person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋