I hate my life, it stinks. i lost my mum, so i was looking for someone to talk to because i feel so alone. i met someone who seemed very nice. i liked her alot. her friend emailed me using her account and told me not to email her anymore. i don't know what to do, i feel so miserable. she called me a liar and everything and that is what really upsets me. she told me to stop getting her to tell me everything when i didn't ask anything, she told me everything herself what should I do? I was only looking for someone to talk to. please can someone help me? i'm so lost in life right now. i have no parents, i don't go to school and i have no friends except for my siblings and step siblings. can someone please help me? thanks to all those who say yes to helping me.
2007-03-31 10:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-03-31 10:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and find a hotline that helps kids so you can talk to someone about this and if you get lonely and there are some that are confidential so the people there will not know who you are.... or confront this girl that told you not to email her friend that you didnt do anything.. maybe to prove it show her your email if you have nothing to hide.... and ask the girl your emailing why her friend said that and if she told her those lies.. and if she did then this girl is not worth being your friend you deserve a way better friend.... and i am sorry for your loss of your parents... maybe you could go to a nearby park to see if there are kids your age who you can play with.. of course make sure the area is supervised with adults and dont go at night.. good luck and i hope this helps!!
2007-03-31 10:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Allie126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your mum. Life really does stink sometimes. You can't always rely on your friends to get you passed those hard times either. THat's why it is so very important that you find some interests that make you feel good. For me, I like to quilt and to sew. I also like to shop for bargains at flea markets and places like that. THese things give me something to look forward to. Anything will do.....Just as long as it's of interest to you and you get something from it. (That doesn't include drugs and alcohol--- they only steal dreams and destroy families). Hang in there and really, find a sport, hobby, or other activity to venture off into. You won't be sorry.
2007-04-01 16:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I am sorry about your mother. It is hard to lose your mother at any age. I lost my mother 7 years ago. I still want to talk to her even now. It is not you when someone suddenly starts to act weird. You should find a better friend. She sounds like she got scared or something. That is her loss of a good friend (you).
First thing, you should get yourself in school. Education is important in order for you to succeed. You sound like your life has been rough. You can make it better or you can have a sorry attitude and make it worse.
You have had a lot of bad things in your life as many of us have. You have a lot of strength in you to make it better. Get back in school and get a good education. Stick with the rest of your family as they are all you have left at the moment and they are your best friends and know exactly what you are going through as they have gone through it with you. You will make friends once you get into school. I am not saying life will be easy, you will always have the good and the not so good days too. It is what you make of it. You have to try to find something positive in everyday in order to make it. Even if you really have to search for the positive thing, find it. Did someone smile at you? Is the sun shining? Are all your siblings in a good mood? Something, anything is a good start. Start talking to the school counselor about problems you may have as he/she will be able to help you.
Go to the library and learn everything you can about things you want to become. That will get you ahead in your studies. You may be able to get a scholarship that way. Don't let the negative things get you down. You can overcome anything you set your mind to.
I have had bad things happen to me, and I am actually a better person for it. I try to see something positive in everything bad. It isn't always easy, and I do have my bad days. It is ok to cry too. Find that person that it is ok to cry on their shoulder. It can be your sibling, or your schoool counselor. Don't forget to pray. I will pray for your strength, wisdom, health, and courage. I know you can overcome anything that comes your way. Blessings and hugs to you.
2007-03-31 10:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for the lost of your mom. Please accept my sympathy.
you should forget about this girl since she's just making you feel worse. try to remember the good times you had with your mom and try to be closer to your siblings and talk to them. i have a friend who lost both his parents on the same day from a car crash and he felt miserable. he told me that his siblings were separated from him when he went into foster care and he wished he got to know them better, so try talking to your siblings and getting closer to them. when you're ready you should probably go to school. i'm positive that if you're open to other peers that you'll be able to make friends.
Good luck.
2007-03-31 10:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by lalalalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that feels sad.ur life is just like mah friend's life.he lost his parents in a fire and he lives wif his foster parents and 11 brothers and sisters and they barely hang out wif him except 4 1 of them and he also has asthma and he says he lost everything so the only thing he has now is me and he doesn't wanna lose me 2 so i talk 2 him as much as i can but he lives in england and i don't so we're like internet friends.i can b ur friend if u like.sum people can b so stubborn last time.i'm in a middle of a crisis mahself.mah friend also doesn't go 2 skool and his only friends r kinda his siblings and me.Mah friend's name is Ashton but i call him Ash.
2007-03-31 10:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥nini-chan♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds rough. Sorry.
I hate to say this but you are going to have to drop the so-called internet friend. She sounds mean-spirited and cruel.
Siblings and step-siblings are perfectly acceptable friends and until you are able to make contacts with people outside your family, leaning on them for emotional support is probably the smart thing to do.
I also think grief counseling would be good for you. A support group would also put you in contact with people who have experienced similar losses and provide a social outlet for you. Good luck, kid.
2007-03-31 10:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know her friend used her account? It sounds like she wanted to talk to you. Maybe her friend just doesn't care for you. Sorry about your mom. Keep your head up. Things will get better.
2007-03-31 10:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend lost her mom too and she has gotten better than she has been b4 i know its hard for you but you should start going back to school. and hang out w/ ur siblings more often they will be with you forever
2007-03-31 10:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 11. i just recently lost my mom and dad. i no how it feels always feeeling empty and i have to go throught this kind of crap at school too! i will alaways e mail you!!!!! i would love to have someone to talk to that this has happenend to!!!!!! email me and i wil always luv: mya hey we justed talked on my email keep emailimng me please11!!!!!!
2007-03-31 10:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by darsun82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be careful with your decisions, you are very loved somewhere, and will find where you need to be in your llife, I'm very sorry for your loss, who is taking care of you?
Why aren't you in school? you need someone to talk to for sure,honey, I know you're going to be ok.
2007-03-31 10:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by tamilynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋