how can you tell if a guy doesn't love you?

Answer 1

He will do selfish things. He will not include you in his daily activities. He will ignore your feelings and your personal needs and desires. He will show more loyalty and concern for other people than he shows for you and put other people and things first in his life before you. It will become obvious that he does not love you by the way he treats you.

Answer 2

People say they love people all of the time. Often what we confuse for love in the early part of a relationship is the feeling of Euphoria that sweeps us up that is caused by a neurotransmitter in the brain known as dopamine. That is why so many people use the term "I love you" so loosely. The true test of love is not when someone says it but how they act. Remember this actions speak far louder than words ever will. I know its cliche but it is very true. Think about it. If I say that I love you and then spend very little time with you- are my actions congruent with what I am telling you? No they are not. The best indicator of someone's love for you is what they do not what they say. Does your boyfriend spend a lot of time with you? Does he still tell you that your beautiful? Does he talk to you when your together or is he off secluded in his own world watching sports or online. I am not saying these activities are not ok but if when you are together you spend no quality time together than these activities become a problem if they are excessive. Does your boyfriend do the little things like still hold doors for you? Does he ask about your day? If he does these things and pays attention to you then he loves you. If he is emotionally detached than you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he loves you truly then he will say, "My God, I have hurt you and I need to make this better." If he doesn't love you than he will do nothing. I told my wife I loved her everyday for seven years but in the end my actions were far different then my words. I emotionally detached myself. She talked to me about it over and over and I just never changed. Looking back I guess If I truly loved her I would have made the effort to show her. I didn't and she and I separated. Now I realize it was for the best but at the time I really believed I loved her. Wait let me rephrase I love her but was not in love with her. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

You can tell by when they stop showing you respect.

Answer 4

in the amount of time he spends with you. if he's spending less time with you, or avoiding you, it's not love.

Answer 5

if he hasn't showed you it. and what i mean by it is...if your heart is questioning him or what he hasn't done for you to have already had the answer to that.