my Friend died?

Question

She was only 12 she was a good friend i can't stop crying im only 12 wat should i do

Answer 1

my mom died dec.20,2005 i still cry one a mounth you may never get over it but family helps if you wanna talk my email is [e-mail]. im 11 my names jadeh i hope we can talk sometime

Answer 2

Keep crying, its okay to cry and miss her...You can't stop those feelings...I'm sorry that you lost someone close, thats always hard...Only time can heal you now, and a month from now if you still cry once in a while its okay...There's nothing you can do about it...Dont shove your parents or other family or friends out tho...let them comfort you and help you...I know thats somethign people always do is shut out the ones they love in hard times, but sometimes its good to surround yourself with people you love...Hang in there hunny...Things will be okay!! She's in good hands now!

Answer 3

(((HUGS)))

Keep crying...and don't quit until you have cried all the sad out. This will probably be something you will remember forever. You will hear a bunch of dumb stuff like, "She's with G*d now." or "Try to remember the good times" or "Everyone has to die sometime...this was her time" or "Time will heal your pain."

While these are all valid points...it really won't make you feel better. It is fine to be sad. It is fine to be mad. Its okay to laugh when you remember good things about her. You are doing the right thing by crying...don't keep it in!

Maybe you can find someone to talk to if you need to. Your school counselor will be glad to talk to you. LIZ

Answer 4

You should try to remember your friend and all of the things that you two had in common. Look for new friends that have the same qualities as your friend that died and try to hang out with them. Never forget your friend though. I am very sorry for your loss and I hope you get better soon.

Answer 5

i am really sorry your friend died.i know you will miss her and things wont be the same.it is ok to cry and feel sad,maybe you can think of something you did with your friend and can remember the happy times.you could make a special memory book about your friend,put pictures of her and the two of you together and write about her favorite things,like music,food,bands,movies.what she didnt like,anything that makes you think of her and smile.someday you will remember her with a smile and still you may cry.she was lucky to have you for a friend too.something else you can do is to plant atree or her favorite flower in her memory.good luck sweetie.

Answer 6

Surround yourself with other friends and share memories of the friend who passed away. Some will make you laugh and others will make you cry. It will help you take your mind off things but I know you will never forget her. Do your best to keep her memory alive in your heart. That will make you feel better everyday to know that she is near you.

Answer 7

yes, time will heal, but u need some1 2 talk 2 about how ur feelin...can u talk with ur parents or ask them if u can c a counselor 4 a lil while 2 get through the initial shock? so sorry 4 ur loss...hang in there, sugar, ur friend isn't with u in body but will always b with u in spirit...

Answer 8

its ok and good to cry.......dont wry about it...ppl cant tell u to stop crying u just and ARE going through a HUGE time in ur life...so cry and cry and dont do it by urself so it with ur other friends who were friends with the one who just passed. get together and instead of thinking about what ur gonna do WITH out her think of the things u did WITH her....its gonna be better...good luck i hope u can heal quick

Answer 9

You'll soon come to terms with it - yes, I know that's easy to say, but it'll eventually happen.

Meanwhile you may like to look at it this way: You had a good friend, you think she's beautiful and are so sad she's gone - but weren't you oh so lucky to have had her as a friend?

So many people didn't.

Answer 10

its alright to cry. it sounds like now is a good time for God to come into your life if you havent already. He helps you through whatever your struggle is "God will never test you more than you can bear." that is a verse in the Bible, im not sure where and if i got it completely correct, but its true. its ok. youll make it.

Answer 11

If you are in Britain and very sad and need someone you feel is removed from your situation ring Childline. It's a much better idea than talking to all sorts of people you don't know on the internet. Please tell your parents that you have asked this question and that your on line.


http://www.childline.org.uk/