My wife had cheated on me three times in our marrige. Last time she did I told her it was over and to get out! We have a son together and now she won't let me see him unless I take her back. I haven't seen my son in over a month but have filed for a divorce! My lawyer says that once we go to court she will have to let me see him. But it getting harder not to take her back because I miss my son. I've never been more than two days without him! I'm going crazy without him! She can stay gone for all I care!
So my question is what would you do if you were in my shoes?????
2007-03-31 08:25:41 · 21 answers · asked by the_answer_man 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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I'm really sorry about your son, your wife must be a b*tch.
Demand to see him, he's yours also!
Ask your lawyer for an emergency hearing.
2007-03-31 08:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well..gee that's easier to answer than to live probably; but I would bite the bullet in the short run (IE: not see the child) for now to gain the autonomy to be his father on YOUR terms. Blackmail is the wrong way to show your son how to be a man. She is obviously a very conceited and self centered mother who isn't considering her child at all. So divorce is better for him too.And he definitely needs a parent who is thinking of his best interests if the mom is so immature. And my dad taught me that you know when you're doing the right thing because it's the hardest thing to do of the choices before. SO, you're doing the right thing, and that's why it's so hard. Think about like this:
"What would be the best for the boy IN THE LONG RUN?" If you can answer that question you won't need any of us to say yea or nay about it.
good luck. and take good care of that little person entrusted to your care!
2007-03-31 15:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this woman manipulate you using your son. Your lawyer is your best ally. A decent mother would not keep the child from seeing his father. Be careful of her. She may try to sleep with you, and who knows...she could be pregnant by someone else and try to pin the pregnancy on you or worse. Stay away from her, but push the lawyer for your rights as the child's father. Good luck to you.
2007-03-31 15:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You hang in there. Don't take that whoreeeee back you will see your son soon besides what kind of relationship will you have with her anyway? Your son will see that everything is not good with the two of you. He will have a better relationship with you away from the whoreeeee. When ppl stay together just for the kids it is alway bad and the kids can sense this too. Hang in there and you will have a good relationship with your son soon. She does not love you. Lose the loser forever you deserve better.
2007-03-31 15:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is cruel to put you through this. Marriage is supposed to be for life, but I don't blame you that you got a divorce because she was cheating on you. Go to court and explain to the judge that your ex-wife is not fit to raise your son. The boy might be around strange people with his mother seeing men and all, so you sound like a much better choice. You and your son are in my prayers.
2007-03-31 15:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by ☼SoccerGirl☼ 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go to divorce court, don't take her back. It won't be long before you can see your Son....Make sure your lawyer tells the judge, that she wouldn't let you see your son, after you separated.....
2007-03-31 15:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I would've done is not take her back after the first time. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Yer in a pretty tight spot, though. What a *****.I'd tell my lawyer to hurry thehell up! Good luck, dude, I hope everything works out. Oh, and...DON'T TAKE HER BACK!!!
2007-03-31 15:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by chris j 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell that lawyer you want temp papers drawn up RIGHT NOW. That way you can see him without the divorce being done.
2007-03-31 15:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
be strong!! geesh i'm a mother of four, i never contiplated not letting their father see them! i need the break! lol you have to be really really nuts not to let the father help out like that. just be paitent, be strong and know she can actually get in trouble for doing that. now why hasnt your lawyer done an emergency hearing where you get to see him. she is going to regret this. and make sure your attny. mentions this during custody hearing. sorry about your probs.
2007-03-31 15:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hold on... why isn't your lawyer requesting an emergency hearing so the judge can give visitation rights until set by court ???
2007-03-31 15:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋