2007-03-31 07:57:01 · 9 answers · asked by TLKS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends what he/she did. Just give them chances to rebuild it. Honestly, it's time. But in order for them to rebuild the trust you have to be willing to give it. You gave them a second chance, out of YOUR free will, don't hold it over their head. You wanted to move on, so move on.
2007-03-31 07:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you asking or do you no and want to see if someone else knows.If your asking it's been 10 years sense my husband cheated on me and the trust still isn't there.I'll never trust him again but that doesn't mean I don't love him.I have read so many books on the subject of cheating and they all say the same thing. In order to heal and build trust you must forgive your partner for all the wrong doings he has done. ( F U C K
THAT) if I forgive him for ever thing he has done that's saying it's ok what you done to me,you no what it isn't ok and it never will be. I don't no if you can build something that has been knocked down and destroyed.People say with out trust you have nothing well that just isn't true.
2007-03-31 17:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to regain trust is to agree to have no secrets, and allow yourselves to be open books to one another. You must be able to ask questions, (who were you hanging out with, who was that on the phone) with no snippy comebacks or "why don't you trust me" crap. This needs to go on, until you both feel that you can trust one another again. It is not an easy thing to do, but it can be done.
2007-03-31 15:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by I See You 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some can I have heard.... BUT mine was caught lying cheating, and I can not trust 1 word he says and I trust him as far as I can see him.........
Now if you only caught em in some thing once MAYBE you can work through it..... Mine was a dog and Ill never trust him.
I did forgive him cause I had to to be able to clean my own life up with God but the memory of what he did will never go away
2007-03-31 15:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's still "a relationship" and not a marriage, don't waste your time, move on. If it's a marriage just be trustworthy for a long long time.
2007-03-31 15:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by 4warned 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start by learning to love and trust yourself, and build from that
point on.
2007-03-31 15:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure it out on your own. You can't keep looking for people for answers. We are here to help, but you have to help yourself. Sooner or later you'll have to solve a problem on your own. Why not try now than waiting for later?
Good Luck.
2007-03-31 15:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it just depends on what was done wrong. somethings you can't get that trust back.
2007-03-31 15:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very hard...............
2007-03-31 15:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jo,jo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋