i asked a few girls in the local pub this afternoon and they said they confidence men that are sure with themselves, funny and a little bit shy. i can understand with the funny and shy. being funny means that you how to entertain a girl, which is a postitive impression on any lasting relationship with a girl and being shy means that there is a little bit of mystery going on and i know that girls love a challenge. how do you get the confidence bit right. do women like a man who is informative.
i can sometimes be shy, which makes me behave in a funny way. i do stupid things when i am nervous, but i want to know how to make the right choices with women. is being yourself the key to unlocking he desires or interest in you.
2007-03-31 07:03:25 · 4 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
Worry less about being what "girls" want you to be, and more about being what you want to be. If you are comfortable with yourself, you come across as confident. Being shy is not a bad thing; frankly, I prefer men with a little more humility and a little less swagger. However, even I don't want someone who needs constant reassurance and gets his feelings hurt at the slightest provocation.
2007-03-31 07:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dont conform to the ideals of what a certain group of girls think a guy should be, because there are bound to be another who thinks the exact opposite.
The trick is to just be yourself. If you are acting in a way which isnt quite 'you', then she's probably not the right one to be with. The right girl appreciates you for who you are.
Informative? Well this doesnt apply to women specifically, but to everyone as a generally whole. For, being informative means you can speak about almost any topics under the Sun. So when you meet new people and friends you would make for good conversation.
I hope this helped you somewhat. =)
2007-03-31 14:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opinions are going to be as varied as there are people. You have to take those studies with a grain os salt.
2007-03-31 14:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself!! that's all you have to do to attract a woman!! don't try to act like what you're not.. women can tell when you're faking.
2007-03-31 15:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by J Leigh ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋