2007-03-31 05:54:10 · 9 answers · asked by Live.Love.Laugh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I dated a gang member and knew others who had as well. Dating a gang member is VERY bad. They have no goals, and rarely get an education. 95% of them will end up in jail or dead. You WILL be in life or death situations, people jumping him or shooting at him will also be shooting at you. While I was with the gang member, I had a shotgun held to my head by a gang rival, fights with females from other gangs, and been in the house while some one tried to kill them in a drive by, I was never involved with their gang, but people will associate you with the gang if you hang out with them. It sucks, they are all losers, and the 5% that make it, got out before they were in too deep. Dating a gang member will only bring you down.
2007-03-31 06:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is indicative that you are doubting the move to date a gang member. When in doubt, don't!
Save yourself a life-time of misery, deceit, and criminal association and leave the guy and everything in which he associates himself. Otherwise, your life might become shorter.
When you play with fire you will get burned.
2007-03-31 13:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Guitarpicker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to put yourself at risk like that? Is a loser gang member really worth it? Gangs are for ******* who can't stand on their own two feet. Date a real man.
2007-03-31 12:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by bullet_to_the_brain 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes to all your questions. you have to think about this, gang people are on different levels than some. If you date this person, how do you know that his or her rivials won't come after you to hurt your partner? listen to biggie's me and my *****. maybe you'll see what i'm saying on the real. God bless!
2007-03-31 12:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by QueenMother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. If you like him who gives a ****. If hes a real man he will guard u and take the bullets. dating him doesent make u a ****** gang member wtf. thats stupid. And plus if hes a gang member if he claims he is he is stone hearted so he will stand up to anyone if he needs to
2007-03-31 14:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by LilMunekx3 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
YES, you just wrote our self a death sentance by being with them. THEY kill each others gf + families. YOUR also placing your family in danger as well. you should be so proud of your self.
2007-03-31 12:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, good luck!
2007-03-31 12:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good. You're putting yourself in a lot a danger. Please get out while you can.
2007-03-31 12:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. yes. yes. get away ASAP! Been there done that. not fun.
2007-03-31 12:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋