Problem: lies so much they believe themself, and negatively creates and manipulates situations to favor them.?

Question

I have seen so many "different" types of this, is it all the same? are there different cases that are labeled differently? EXAMPLE: A friend goes out with a friend to look for a job one day, to go to walmart another day, and a movie on the weekend. (just as a minder, this is in a swinger community, but this person does not follow those standards.) Someone gets overly jealous because this person is married, albeit this person getting upset is married as well, and creates a situation of this person going out with his/her friend. The situation goes from "This married person is young and naive and will sleep with anyone" to, "This person's Husband/Wife is known to follow people and hurt them" to "Get out of my house, you are endangering my family". Knowing that this scene is completely fabricated, he/she blames this person for not thinking things through before spending time with a friend. I am stumped. I know how to deal with it, I just don't know what kind of behavior this is. Thanks!

Answer 1

Behavior of the selfish and immature. Behavior of people who love drama and intrigue in their lives. Behavior to stay as far away from as possible.

Answer 2

...it sounds as if you have the "control" attitude commonly associated with people who have the lives of "others" to observe and be critical of.

it is common for those who become perturbed by the cause and affects of relationships.

and i think you have it backwards....you are stumped because you would like to "deal with it" but " know what kind of behaviour this is..."

but from this observer....there is not enough information or linear logic within this letter for any keen observer to grasp meaning or response.

maybe you would like to elaborate more completely with a proper question intended.

don't get me wrong....i am not saying you are wrong or do not know of what you speak. but you certainly are selective to leave much open space for others to fill in.

good luck with your..."Problem".


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