i just wonderin about that and never did that. i'm just feeling curious bout the people experienced it. what emotions will they feel after they have engaged with that and is that some kind of fantasy? will this degrade their integrity?
2007-03-31 05:13:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was tempted to be a smart mouth here and say, "I have only one night stand and it works for me," but I will not do that.
Live with your ethical standards. If this is your fantasy go for it. If it works for you, good, if not at least you put the fantasy to rest.
2007-03-31 07:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ray T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the type of person you are. If you are a very emotional or a very attached type of person then a one night stand may make you feel very lonely, lost, or degraded the next day. If you are just doing it for the fun and don't attach yourself to the other person however, a one night stand can become simply an experience, a fun time.
2007-03-31 05:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, It has nothing to do with integrity. A sexual need is being fullfilled. If you think that lust is a mortal sin. Judge me a sinner. I don't believe in that stuff. I am a being with a high sex drive and that's it. Not fullfilling that need ocassionally is frustrating. The question is about morality, which is individual. As long as both parties are concenting adults, who cares? Besides that, in the gay world, for the most part, it works like this...........Test drive the car before you buy it. Not the other way around. It's certainly more pragmatic.
2007-03-31 05:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by ramblin' robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have any emotions about it because I was so stinking drunk when I did it! I awoke in a strange house with a woman I had never seen before in my life. After finding my clothes I went outside to find my car nowhere in sight. I didn't want to wake her because I was so embarrassed. I called a taxi and realized I didn't know the address. I looked for one and found a letter with her name and address on it. Got back to the bar in a taxi, got in my car and went home. NEVER did I get that drunk again!
2007-03-31 05:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit when I was in my late teens and early twenties I had some quickie hook-ups, and for me it kind of hurt for the guys I was really attracted to, and I felt bad for the other guys who wanted to see me again, but I never called them again. For some guys it is one way to experiment and get off. For other guys who are not in their teens, it is not a good thing at all. As we age, the emotional toll is greater, and says a lot about our integrity, or lack of it.
2007-03-31 05:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was fun, but I realized later how stupid I was. I have no idea where he's been and I put myself at risk for diseases.
I don't thing my integrity was degraded. I just wish I chose a safer way to have fun that night. I am still clean, but still...
2007-03-31 05:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pending: If the person is willing as you are and you have an ample amount of protection, do you!
But then if it was realllyy good you are going to wish you could contact that person and may spend the rest of your life searching for him/her forever lol
2007-03-31 05:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by 511@ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IT IS AWFUL TO DO THAT!!!!! if you r considering this you should re-consider it is wrong. a mortal sin and not just that it is very DEGRADING. i guarntee you will feel guilt and empty - this will hurt you or anyone else emotional - take it from someone that knows - its a big mistake
2007-03-31 05:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, if anything it gave me a sense of accomplishment. i needed it, went out and shopped around and found it. it can be fun and you don't need to worry about hard feelings later.
2007-03-31 05:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you are thinking about the danger of this.
2007-03-31 05:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋