Please tell me.....?

Question

1)My mom can't understand me, my dad gives me tons of pressure and my sister is annoying & proud the negative way.

2)I feel that people don't like me, even the person I THINK I trust the most. May be I don't trust anybody.

3)I'm confused about my sexuality. I mean I feel like I'm attracted to girls although I'M A GIRL! But I still have interest in boys though. Am I turning bisexual/homosexual or is it just a part of growing up?

4)How am I going to grow taller and bust up by using exercises, diets and supplement? What should I really take?

5)All answers appreciated. Thanks!

Answer 1

1.) It is natural for adults to not understand teens, so dont worry a whole lot about that, but try to see things from their perspective if you can. This will help you to understand where they are really coming from and why they might do the things they do.

2.) Try to have a new attitude towards people. I had trouble making friends when I was younger too. As I grew older I learned that of you just concentrate on doing things that impress yourself instead of trying so hard to impress the other people, that they will end up being impressed as well and you will naturally be liked. Set your own goals in your life and concentrate on those.
That saying that says.. "You have to love yoursel before others can learn to love you."... is totally true!!!!

3.) I dont know how old you are, and I suppose you could be Bi or Gay, but it is actually a proven fact that all women admire other womens bodys to a certain extent and even picture other women naked quite often.

4.) Just eat balanced meals with lots of veggies included. If you hate veggies by themselves, try to find recipes where you can jazz em up. making them taste great really helps. I would just take a regular multivitamin to make up for what you haven't eaten in your food during the day.

Remember: It is never too late to have a happy childhood. So, if you can try to get over the mistakes you have made in the past, and just accept that you did not know any better, you can always have a good future ahead of you to look forward to.

I think you will do fine. Sounds hippyish, but work on filling your heart with peace, love and acceptance and things will all work out for you. Good luck!

Answer 2

1) It' usualy a part of growing up. Parents seldom understand and put pressure on their kids because they love them and want what they feel is best for them. And a sibling's job is to be annoying. Maybe your sister feels the same way about you.

2) Why do you feel that people don't like you? Are you likable or are you a know it all? Usually if people don't like you, especially your so-called friends then their is a reason.

3)Alot of teens are confused about their sexuality. You didn't say how old you are. And to be honest, only you can truly know how you feel about the opposite/same sex. Just because you are attracted to girls does not mean that you are bisexual/homosexual. Maybe just bi-curious.

4) Just relax. If you were meant to be tall you will be. If you were meant to have large bust you will have. Diet and exercise for the health benefits not so much for how it will make you look. You seem to be dealing with a lot right now. Enjoy your youth while you can. You have a entire life time to worry. Good Luck

Answer 3

1. The way you deal with trust issues is to offer trust and if your trust is violated, don't trust that person again, until they prove to you that they can be trusted. This is an example of the game strategy known as "tit for tat." You can look it up in Wikipedia for details.

2. Confusion about your sexuality happens often in the teen years. You can experiment if you like, but be aware that homosexuality/bisexuality is still not accepted everywhere, and the reactions you get may cause you some unhappiness.

3. Your body will grow as determined by your genes. Growing taller than your genes will permit isn't really possible. Your bust will grow in the same fashion, as determined by your genes. You're too young for any sort of breast augmentation, so just let yourself grow and see what results. Other than that, good exercise is always a good idea.

Answer 4

Sweetie al parents are the same yours are no differnt from any others Its all part of growing up and away from your family.
I think you have been though negative experiences so you mistrust people. It not healthy just to take everyone at face value and trust everyone so in this you are wise but you need someone who you can trust.
The sexuality thing is a normal growing process and you are born gay or bisexual you
dont turn it
Your bust is your bust you are still growing so just ake it easy and let nature take its course

Good luck I hope I helped

Answer 5

Sounds like you have a lot of teen hormones running amok....
pretty normal. Don't make any life-altering decisions at the moment- you are not in a position to do so. Just wait out the wild ride, and then start analyzing what you want.

As far as making yourself grow taller, you can't. Nature will do what it will. But, healthy diet & exercise will make you a healthy person, no matter what size you end up.

Answer 6

1. That's just life sweetie. Hopefully as you get older it will get better.
2. Don't pay them any mind. As long as you like yourself that's all that matters.
3. That is normal for some people and just a part of growing up. Give yourself time and don't place labels on yourself or feel as though you have to be a certain way. Just do what makes you happy as long as you are safe.
4. You just have to let puberty and your genes run its course. There's nothing you can take to make these things happen. Just eat as you normally would--balanced meals and regular exercise to stay healthy.
5. You're welcome. Best of luck to you!

Answer 7

Well I'd have to say it may just be all about growing up, your mind and body are both changing and you don't know just want to do or think. Just know this, as things go you will get a better handle on it and you'll be alrighty, most young people go through something like this, It will be okay. Some day you'll look back and laugh. Good Luck.

Answer 8

1. you have to talk to your family and explain how you feel

2. maybe people don't like you there is nothing you can do about it except try to get them to so just be your self

3. umm i'm not sure if that's natural or something but if you still have an interist in guys i guess ur straight

4. you will eventually grow taller naturally as long as you have a healthy diet

5. your welcome

hope this helps =)

Answer 9

just try not to be so mad or sad and go with the flow. If your turning bisexual then that's okay, bcuz it's personal preferance. It could also be a part of growing up though. Try to be nice to your parents and ask them if you can spend time with them and talk to them have a day out with them and share all your feelings. Maybe they'll understand you better then. I hope this works thanx for letting me help you. and good luck

Answer 10

1.that's family keep pushing and you'll get through
2.you must have been hurt...try to find even one person to open up to and you'll feel better
3.I thin it's just a different kind of attraction that has you confused
4.focus on light resistance weight to just tone up...eat plenty of all vitamins and a lot of protein and calcium
5....glad to help : )