how seriously should i take things my gf says during her pms/period....there are times where shell be calm and yesterday she just unleashed hell on me for no reason(i know mood swings are part of the package)....she said she wanted to break up but does she really mean it....IE...this hasnt been the first time.....should i call or wait for her
2007-03-31 04:13:38 · 30 answers · asked by i need help 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
the best thing you could do is run away until it's over.
2007-03-31 04:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women have this emotional thing going on during that time, but they should still try to act like a lady and take their partner's feelings into consideration. I would give her a day to settle down and then give her a call. Maybe ask her how she is doing and then take it from there. Also, maybe this is something that you two should discuss when she is not having a monthly cycle. Let her know how you feel and that she sometimes put you through hell when she flies off the handle. Relationships can be hard, but no matter what one partner is going through, they should always try to communicate and respect each other. ( An apology would be nice after one of those hell raising days and then she could tell you how much she loves and appreciates you)
Smile, remember to communicate.........good luck.
2007-04-08 11:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by JANICE P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until her period is over. Then contact her - tell her how much you care it is pretty obvious from your question that you do. I think she does not have pms but pmdd - a much more serious condition and that she needs to keep a diary and take the information to her gyn and talk about it there. I suffer from this and honestly every time I had a melt down I thought I was right and I was shocked when I finally saw it was hormonal and nobody was actually being mean to me. good luck to you -k-
2007-04-08 11:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to be over her pms and then talk to her. If this isn't the first time she's said it then maybe she really does want to break up and she's just using pms as an excuse to say it.
2007-03-31 11:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur gf goes nuts do not say she is going nuts bite your lip call her say you are so sorry and hold her tell her she is pretty and you ;love her and if she says she wants to break up with you be like baby i love you what did i DOOOO and then when she says you did this this and that you says oh my goodness i never knew that that upset you im sorry baby i will do my best im not tryna make you mad i love you and look her in the eyes the whole time as if you cant take your eyes off her and look sad like a kicked puppy when she yells and reamember THE WOMAN IS ALWAYS RIGHT AND IF YOU QUESTION THAT YOU WILL NOT GET LAID
2007-03-31 11:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably didn't really mean it when we are pmsing we get really pist off well that's what happends to me it sucks! i would probably wait for her to cool-off then let her call you and if it has been long enough just call her to find out whats up. beware though if she is an emotional kind of person she may cry so just bare with her but at the same time i guess be supportive. good luck
2007-03-31 11:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be symathaetic to a point. my husband and I were falling apart intill i was diagnosed with pmdd (look it up). it felt like a mini pregnancy every 2 or so weeks. unusual sadness, loss, grief, irratablity, physical pain-- cramps, headaches, bloating, cravings the 9. for some women psm can be so severe that it interfears with normal daily living. talk to her and urge her to seek the help of a ob/gyn it can be controlled
2007-04-08 10:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by ginarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man call her and ask her what the heck is going on!
mood swings are one thing but to be just flat out mean is another she can control all of that pms crap.....its just a cop out for being a b***h!
2007-03-31 11:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by pam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude seriously its the worst time of the month for both her and you but if she keeps spouting things about breaking up mabey theres some truth to it wait till shes ok again and sit down with her and get to the bottom of it.
2007-04-07 11:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "this hasnt been the first time" then I think she means it...never would I be like its over to my man just because of mood swings...it goes deeper than that. Don't call her....
2007-03-31 11:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by ?born2lose? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ohhh i'll tel you somethin since i'm a girl , do what ever she tells you and try to avoid any breaking-up speeches and just calm her down when ever she gets into a bad mood,just take things seriously and let her calm down
2007-03-31 11:17:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋