Have you Ever noticed this or is it me???
I think I am a pretty Nice guy. But I believe it is used to take advantage of me. Should I be a bit more Mean?? Or just Stay nice??
I have A bunch of Questions Laced through here. Please answer tham All.
2007-03-31 03:44:28 · 26 answers · asked by The Hitman 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I sure as Heck don't have Self Esteem Issues as much As I used too. I am just asking this to ask Really because I think Nice Guys can get Used to the Point that they Hole up. (It is happening to me. I am soooooo nice that I am getting used. And I am about to just Cut everyone off.)
2007-03-31 03:58:35 · update #1
It may seem true but in the end it is not.....my husband was a nice guy in high school, we went to the same school, a small one, and I hardly knew him. I was the cheer leader home coming queen type.....not mean, just a big fish in a small pond,.........After many messed up relationships I remet him at a high school reunion and fell head over heals and for all the right reasons. I had made some very successfull real estate deals and was in a really good place $ wise, but couldn't trust anyone. He gained my trust, rebuilt my confidense, quit his job that he hated (I wanted him to) and now we are married, very trusting and in love and have fun every day and love our lives......that isn't last....and he is nice.
Once girls grow up they know that nice guys rule, and the big mouthed jock types that used to get all the girls are in prison or still trying to ride life from a few god years on a team.....!!!
2007-03-31 03:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being nice is so hard, becuase people are sooo damn annoying. Mean Guys finish first becuase they don't care who they step on to get what they want. Nice guys finish last, becuase they always let the mean guys walk all over them.
It's good that you're nice, stay nice. We need more nice people. But you should stick up for yourself a bit more. If you have the right of way, cut the other guy off for once.
: - )
2007-03-31 03:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by ummmcolleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice is harder than being mean because some people make it that way.They prefer to just be rude and it is hard not to be the same way back.Mean guys do not always finish first they just tend to overpower and intimidate rather than truly be excepted and loved.Nice guys dont always finish last but they are less likely to boast about it all and enjoy.Yes I have noticed it.No dont be mean you are too good how you are,stay nice you get a better quality of friends who truly like you rather than a bunch just along for the ride.
2007-03-31 03:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i think mean guys finish first because they have self esteem.. and some nice guys don't so they usually finish last than the mean guys... I don't think you have to be mean all you have to do is build your self esteem and maybe time will come when people won't take advantage of you anymore also you should only be yourself don't try to be someone else if you did people would probably take you more for advantage...
2007-03-31 03:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by TinTin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because slow and steady wins the race. Mean guys finishing first doesn't mean they win.
Being nice is hard because being mean is easy.
Mean guys finish first because they aren't nice enough to do stuff which makes them wait.
Nice guys finish last because they don't do mean things to get what they want.
You should stay nice, and choose the right company instead. Everyone appreciates nice people, even the mean ones.
2007-03-31 03:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by rawr8512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mean people suck! I think they see niceness as a weakness and that makes them want to be "strong" by being a jerk. I used to be "too nice" until I got really sick of people's attitudes. Now, I'm just assertive. You don't have to be a meany to avoid being taken advantage of, but you should know when to stand your ground.
I saw an episode on the Tyra Banks Show about this very topic. Here's the link:
http://telepicturesblog.warnerbros.com/tyrashow/2007/03/too_nice_for_your_own_good.html
2007-03-31 03:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Bethany Whisper♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being nice is hard, because you try to be decent to people, but they dont recognize you effort to be sweet to them.
mean guys finish first cause sometimes they have to "push n shove" to get ahead- this only shows lack of ability to do it the right way.
nice guys finish last cause the mean guys are sooo determined to be on top of the world and they dont want anyone to steal their glory
i think being a little LESS nice, not necessarily being mean could help a bit. maybe some think you are a pushover- so not being such a sweet pea could be in your favor
good luck!
2007-03-31 03:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by his love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mean guys get nowhere with me.Nice guys on the other hand have a great chance.
Stay how you are,trust me the mean guys are the ones lonely later in life because even the most self esteem starved female eventually wakes up...
2007-03-31 03:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because finishing first isn't the Nice Guys main priority in life like it is for the Mean Guy.The Nice Guy cares more about everyone and not just themselves.
2007-03-31 03:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be mean to not be taken advantage of. Nice guys are the best guys to date and be friends with. If you dont already have a ton of girl-friends right now, then soon they will be your good friend if you stay nice. Mean guys are jerks and i hate dating jerks. But if you dont want to be taken advantage of, stay nice, but just dont be so soft for the jerks and rude people
2007-03-31 03:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋