2007-03-31 02:42:32 · 10 answers · asked by Racy! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That depends on the person who wants it. Foreplay is a conscious effort one makes to enhance a final act. It is preparation and it goes beyond when the couple is actually together.
Foreplay is a naughty text message or e-mail. It is putting your make up on after you take your shower for the night. It is wearing your lingerie under your work clothes and letting him know it.....and reminding him why you wore your lingerie....because it keeps him on your mind......
You can take him to sex instruction sites just to see in print what you already know...or to blush and gasp at things you didn't imagine...to tantric sex or kama suta...or ,( gosh, it's just too naughty) or even a porn site....the fact that you initiate these things will turn him on.....it's not a legnth of time, it's a state of mind.
2007-03-31 02:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some people, marriage itself finishes the foreplay, but clearly you don't have one of those, since you made it through seven years before hitting this problem.
No, definitely not. There is no expiration date on foreplay, lingerie, playfulness, and other forms of intimacy, between two connected people.
Since it's not the length of time you've been married, there must be some other factor that has changed things.
You know the inside of your relationship, and we don't. Some possibilities though, Has your partner been under unusual stress lately, or more tired than usual? Have you fallen into a relationship rut, where you feel like you're taking each other for granted? Is your partner on new medication which may affect the sex drive as one side effect?
Definitely need to look at the relationship as a whole, and try to see what is happening, because it's absolutely not just that you've hit 7 years.
2007-03-31 03:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shannen D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to know what foreplay is till i got married.
my husband is wham bam thank u mam!
i wish some Co. will create a LIFESIZE boy doll that does foreplay as well for desperate wife like me.
but that doesn't mean i should give up foreplay. i like to play by myself. it works wonder & even better than foreplay @ times!
cheers to playingBforeplay!
2007-03-31 02:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mdm89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of couples go through slumps like this, including me and mine! The best thing to do is keep initiating it, always do to yours what you'd like done to you. If you want more passion or excitement then don't wait for it to come to you, I guarantee that your man will become excited by what you're doing and your sex life will get back on track, if not, there is something WRONG with him!
2007-03-31 03:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by christy_lynn12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! I've been married 9 years, everything is still going great.
2007-03-31 02:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you and your partner. You have to work at it just like everything else in life. It is what you put into it.
2007-03-31 02:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key here is communication - let your partner know what you want from them and ask what they want from you.
2007-03-31 02:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Zabes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! I always take my time and heat the oven just right.
2007-03-31 02:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stan the man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously not - maybe you just have the wrong dude, or the wrong attitude.
2007-03-31 03:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not with a good lover..
2007-03-31 02:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋