My mom my keeps leaving me just about every weekend for this guy. I hate it. I cry to her & cry but she says i'm the one being selfish. She is about to leave how do i stop her to make her stay home?
2007-03-31 02:41:02 · 10 answers · asked by Lucas l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm a teen.
She leaves for 2-3 days each time and does not pick up her phone.
2007-03-31 02:55:25 · update #1
* Let her live her own life , How old are you ? Grow up if you are over 13 ish *
2007-03-31 02:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Im just curious. Is there anyone going to be home with you? I ask this because im trying to figure out why you are scared, if youre not scared, why dont you want her to leave? Do you just have a bad vibe about him? If so, tell her that and make sure she understands you clearly. If she still doesnt listen, let her go, she is the adult, she is the mother and if her very own childs tears didnt and does not stop her then really, there is nothing else you can do but pray that she is safe, and hopefully is just a fad and it will eventually fade away. Pray, he'll here you....
2007-03-31 09:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by mizpeaches518 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a young one then the question to ask is how old are you and remind your mother of your age if applicable. Let her know you concern and as your mother she should understand how you feel, if you are doing it as I did when I was a kid which was to keep my mum all to myself til I was about 12 it was because I was an only child and couldn't understand having it any other way and didnt want it any other way, you are best to let her be, she is your mum and just let her know you care about her and that you just want to know she will be ok however as I said earlier though if you are of a young age then express your concern if this doesn't help and you are being left at home, how long are you being left at home for? Are you alone, and do you have your necessities taken care of? If not seek help from family services.
2007-03-31 09:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by xentrichick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make your parents be good parents its up to them if you are under the legal age to be left at home tell someone like your teacher or school counsellor maybe you could get the counsellor to speak to her for you.Otherwise ask to be left with some one like gran parents aunts or uncles Good luck hope things get better for you real soon.
2007-03-31 09:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel with out the crying and freaking out. be honest and try not to blame her for anything. you cant expect her to be home every weekend. she is an adult. but she should be there for you. ask her to spend one or two weekends a month with you or something.
2007-03-31 10:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. The woman deserves a life too.
2007-03-31 09:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are.You could turn her in...
2007-03-31 09:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and care for her and that you dont like that guy.
2007-03-31 09:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by shank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ?
If you are over 14......grow up & get over it...
2007-03-31 09:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to quit having sex wen she should be watching you
2007-03-31 09:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋