i sleep with my friend once on 2 months ago , sleep on her side ... I take advance on her , not mean i rape her , just touch her body .... Next day she found out what i had done to her .... I just said sorry but i dont know what to do ... Now i still can meet with her but she does not want to talk with me anymore , and i dunno how to face with her ... In old times we can talk alot , but now no topic .... Help ....
2007-03-30 21:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by Hnghchua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I mean I really don't know what to say about you! Your friend has every right to be upset with you....you VIOLATED her and she feels angry that a FRIEND would do that to her. If you call yourself a friend then you should act like one and that doesn't mean taking advantage of her. I'm not sure if you have feelings for her and you couldn't help yourself...it stills doesn't give you the right to do what you did. You can just wave bye-bye to any hopes that you had with her. I would give her the time she needs becuase I know she isn't feeling you right now. Try sending her flowers or something to try to make up for what you did.
2007-03-30 22:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why did you end up in the same bed together? How old are you two also matters.If she is so stubbern, write her a letter to explain how you feel bout this incident. If you do not get respone right away, she clearly does not want to see you for some reason or other. But I do not believe for a second it has to do with that bed-thing. Move on!!
2007-03-30 22:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the topic what you feel and think of what you did. tell her why you touched her... she must've been beautiful.... and you betrayed her trust... why? ask yourself that, apologize and ask her to forgive you... you are human and made a human mistake. She is also human and feels she cant trust you anymore.. so... tell her you want your friendship back, tell her you were wrong and why.. if that doesnt help, the betrayal was too much. then take your loss, learn from it and move on. she might reconsider herself when time passes without you... good luck:)
2007-03-30 21:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have obviously lost her trust in you,you need to rebuild the trust back and just tell her you were an idiot for doing what you did,she may come round in time
2007-03-30 21:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a serious talk with her, just you and her, it sounds like you have lost her trust and you need to regain this in order to have things back to the way they were!
2007-03-30 22:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her as your girlfriend
2007-03-30 21:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by clone_hiryu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋