My boyfriends little brother (12 y/o) just told my boyfriend that I was looking through his moms jewelry box with the door locked and that I was looking through his other brothers top drawer where he keeps money and now he is missing some. None of that is true! He use to be really nice to me and recently he started getting snippy and rude. I told him if he wasnt nicer to me I wouldnt give him rides anywhere and now he is telling these lies! Although his older brother and I have been going out for 3 yrs his mom likes me on and off because I am his first girlfriend. Its almost like she is looking for a reason to not like me and this is it! I ask my bf what to do and he just says "I dont know" Should I talk to his parents or talk to him (the little brother)?
2007-03-30 19:59:02 · 9 answers · asked by ice_purple969 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
clarification: my bf has my side, he just didnt have any advice
2007-03-30 20:45:33 · update #1
i think u should ignore the little brother by not referring to him in any way even when u c him. he probably feels like u r takin his brother away from him, this would explain the sudden change in behavior. he is makin up these lies to kind of get his brother back. just ignore him completely and may be he will stop. if not, let him kno that he cant continue like this, bcos u dont like it. get ur bf to talk to his bro too. But IGNORE him first! just act like u dont c him; like he isnt there!
2007-03-30 20:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by nouvelle_moi993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get everyone in the house together and corner the little brother he will mess up if everyone start talking at him all at once.Tell them you swear on your mothers life or the bible if you need to .If you did not do it and I don't think you did it will come across. I'm surprised at your boyfriend for not taking your side .You two have been together for 3 years now he should no you wouldn't do anything like that.This can't be the first time his brother has done something like this and they must no this about him.
2007-03-30 20:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'm sorry this is happening. I would sit his parents AND the little brother down and talk about it. Tell them the truth about how you aren't stealing anything from them and would never do such a thing. My boyfriends mother is iffy about liking me because i'm her sons first girlfriend as well. We have now been together for 2 years and have plans to get married. Me and his brothers have always been close. But i can just imagine how things are for you. E-mail me if you have anymore questions about this, or with how things go. Good luck!!
2007-03-30 20:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be alone anywhere in their house, ever again.Either be with your boyfriend or his Mother, make sure you aren't left alone with the little brother, ever if you have to leave the house don't get left in that house alone or with the little brother if you have a camera phone keep it handy, you might be able to get some interesting pictures of the little brother if he isn't careful.
2007-03-30 20:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation happen to me
this is what i did i told my bf i will not be going to the house anymore lets find another way to be together
because then it comes down by itself and it will so go somewhere else with your bf besides his house all of the time and leave the little brother out of the picture
2007-03-30 20:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by ................ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you doesn´t know real motivations it´s hard to guess and frecuently we make mistakes. So you should ask only the persons you feel intimate with. Others you should refrain from being closer and just be respectful, but avoid social situations where they can "frame" you and tell lies about your morality.
2007-03-30 20:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by elguerrerourbano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both of them. It sounds like the little brother is looking for a scapegoat.
2007-03-30 20:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk 2 all of them about the problems and how you feel. Your b/f should have your back also. They really need to understand your points, and by him being there with you, should boost your confidence.
2007-03-30 20:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay someone $20 to kick his a##
2007-03-30 20:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋