Well 2night i finally got a hold of my b/friends cell. im 25 hes 34. Man oh man what did I find. Topless pics of girls/girls sprawled out on his bed. I didnt evn get to the video.He busted me b4 i had a chance. Countless nu,bers of women all of which i wrote down. I only manages to get to J and I had his cell for 10min b4 he busted me. I still dont even know if there is any need to call these numbers i have enough proof.Text msgs saying i miss u lets go 4 dinner? he last phote was takn on march 27 07 of a naked girl on his bed he told me that he was watching the game that night. im devested we talked many times about being 2gether forever he always told me he loved me was affectionate supportive.Our sex life was awesome and then some. I dont get it. He always said i was the love of his life HAHAHAH thats so funny now. Hes spent 3 hrs crying on the phone preaching the usual i love u ,im so sorry i hate myself i dont wanna live u were evrything to me HAHA funny once again such a crock of
2007-03-30 19:31:32 · 13 answers · asked by n m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh i plan too and it wonr be easy but hey man im 25 have been living my life for him for the past 7 yrs. Not to be full of myself but i am attractive tall blonde blue eyes nice features always get looks for others. Now its my turn. Im looking after me now doing what makes me feel good im still in shock though sickened god man its gross. i cant believe him such a con man SICKKKK.Done like dinner
2007-03-30 19:40:48 · update #1
Far from omish.... stupid answer. this was a supposed to be a commited relationship had he of told m he need multiples of women and disease hen i wouldnt have stayed as long as i did
2007-03-30 19:43:55 · update #2
good on you for catching the rat,
now would be a good time for both of you to get out there and find people who do make each of you happy.
stand tall, hold ur head up proud and no matter what, don't give in to his incessant crawling and the whole begging for forgiveness. Yes, maybe he really did love you but the question now is could you ever love him enough to know that he does that sh*t behind ur back and just accept it? u gave him 7 yrs of ur time and he stuffed up, dont give him anymore.
2007-03-30 19:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. Don't take anymore of his calls. Sever all ties and be glad you only wasted 7 years.
#2. Always trust your intuition. Something made you pick up that phone and check it out.
#3. If you take him back he won't ever stop. This was not a one time thing. He's a habitual DOGG!
#4. Don't even let him flip this around to somehow being your fault. It is NOT!
#5. Be glad you have seen the REAL him and not the person you wanted him to be. I wouldn't even calling any on of the numbers b/c odds are he lied to them too. And you may find out more than you truly want to know. You got all you need now to send him packing.
#6. There is a much better man out there that will appreciate you.
Dump him and don't look back.
2007-03-30 20:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by famurattla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, well i am about 2 1/2 ahead of you and am still with the guy. with 2 year old in tow now..feel that i am living in hell at times got the same answers as you. oh i love only you babe, never do it again, will treat you like princess. but i feel things are still happening with different women, but i have no proof, his little girl loves him. i left 6 weeks ago and came back 2 weeks ago but the reality is no they never change...and it is soo true, he expects me to accept that he only has women friends and that all is ok when he goes to morning tea of lunch with them. where i am coming from is we have been together for six and a bit years and the first four years i found out two and a bit years ago that there was a new woman approx every 10 months for him, and i was living in wonderland, i totally believed that he loved me, even now i try to believe it.. if you can get out do. i have trouble going- i keep believing all will get better. and all it is doing is putting me into depression. hope i can help
2007-03-30 20:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very common for men today to have more love that one woman can handle. Thus the man needs to spread it over several women. It's really a no loose situation. Everyone gets the sweet love'n they are after. Jump into the 21st century. What are you amish.
2007-03-30 19:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by poopy pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser! Even sounded like he squeezed tears out huh? He's good! Once a cheater, chances are always a cheater! Stupid jerk even left pictures on his cell phone! He must think your a REAL stupid female!!!!! Don't bother calling those girls, cuz their only going to laugh in your face!!!! If their letting him take pictures of them nude, your man is quite a manipulator! Your wasting your time trying to tame a dude like that! Better get checked for SIDS.
2007-03-30 19:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gotten your self check by a doctor yet.Please don't tell me he told you he used a rubber and you believe him.If someone would of told you that he has been cheating on you would you have believed them.I have tried to talk sense into some of these women that ask questions about there husbands but they just refuse to believe that their bf or husbands would cheat on them.When are you women out there going to realize that men cheat 99% of men will cheat given the chance.Don't you no that every time you talk about other men who cheat your husband is saying to himself better him then me.Next time your man is holding you ask him what woman he is thinking about in order to get off I bet he just starts to laugh and say what are you talking about.
2007-03-30 20:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's for the two certainly one of them to artwork out. He might in no way recover from her, yet whilst he loves her sufficient to no longer unavoidably forgive, yet settle for, her betrayal and he's a competent father parent for the youngster, and he or she loves him nevertheless, then perhaps they are in a position to artwork it out with alot of scientific care. I in simple terms hardship they're going to misinform the youngster, who will locate out the fact one way or yet another till they're upfront and truthful with him bearing directly to the region at an suitable age. Is the actual dad nevertheless interior the %? Does she even comprehend who the actual dad is??? He might in no way be waiting to undertake the youngster if the organic and organic father protests. there are maximum of themes in this entire issue! ultimate wish could be that she would not love him and he can pass on, yet that may not ensue till he commits to provide up seeing the youngster. provide him my ultimate desires!
2016-11-25 01:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry @$$ and give him a good slap too. All he is and will evr b is a player. If u continue to date him he will do it again, so again slap him or mayb egg his car anything that will give some statisfication and good laughs.
2007-03-30 19:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the girls you got the phone numbers for. and pretend to be health department and say he is hiv positive.
2007-03-30 19:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by thinkaboutit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD GIRL! Now go on with your life.
2007-03-30 19:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Pancho D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋