PLIZZ READ THIS.!! ITS MY BEST FRIEND N I NEED YOUR HELP. I know you might think she really needs help n you wont believe it..but when i started asking her some more questions about what shes thinkin about so much lately...she finally opened up to me...and told me about it. She told me she was feeling soo guilty n thinks it doesnt happen to normal girls in her age. She says she loves him more than ne others that shes ever gone out with or has known in her life. She says to me "of course i dont want n e thing serious happening, but at leas i tell him how much i love him". She used to go counseling to him for family probs before. She knows 100% that he loves her too..but he might think its illegal to tell her about it?. N shes soo beutiful that might drive all men crazy. BELIEVE ME! IS this normal? Will u help me help her? THANK YOU SO MUCH.!!
2007-03-30 19:04:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE IS LIKE A THERAPIST I GUESS. N ALSO A DOCTOR.
2007-03-30 19:07:14 · update #1
AND YOU WOULDNT SAY SHE LOOKS SOO MATURE OR SOMETHING. NOT LIKE U SAY--big this or whatever. she is just a clean minded girl. guys dont look at her as a girl who they can just have fun with n thats it. THEY ALWAYS WANT MORE FROM HER. NOT JUST DATING.
2007-03-30 19:12:32 · update #2
AND YOU WOULDNT SAY SHE LOOKS SOO MATURE OR SOMETHING. NOT LIKE U SAY--the size of somethig or whatever. she is just a clean minded girl. guys dont look at her as a girl who they can just have fun with n thats it. THEY ALWAYS WANT MORE FROM HER. NOT JUST DATING.
2007-03-30 19:13:38 · update #3
love is love.
a little differnt but not a taboo.
2007-03-30 19:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is not abnormal for a 19yr old to
fall in love with about a 50yr old as remember the
about 50yr old knows a heck of a lot, especially
when it comes to minipulating a younger women.
That is not to say that this person is but let's face
it he has had more experience in the woman de-
partment than the 19 yr old woman has in the men
department. Statistically saying it probably will not
last in marriage from death due us part but then
nothing is impossible. Since the 19yr old has not
lived life long enough to really know what it is that
she really wants in life as she is still going through
a trial and tribulation period , anything could happ-
en in her life, more so than the 50yr old. So in
saying that, the 19yr old would probably have her
heart broken before the 50yr old would.
2007-03-30 20:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm believer that age is just a number. My husband is 8 years older than I am and the issue never comes up.
However what your friend may be feeling is merely transference. It is common for this to happen in counseling. Her therapist may be the only positive male in her life right now so this may lead her to believe she loves him. It is perfectly fine, and even encouraged to discuss these sort of things during a session because therapists have specail training to deal with these types of situations.
Sadly though it would be unethical for them to have a relationship outside of counseling. He could get in trouble both in his practice and with the American Psychological Association.
2007-03-30 20:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by elizabethc1030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fell in love or just a crush...???
crush yes...love no...
his a way too old for her why not find any guys who is about the same age of her...or the 20s or 30s.....
but not 50s...oh no...comes close to being a granpa...a daddy...sorry but it will do no good..
she can tell that 50s guy..yeah thats ok but isn't she afraid? something might get happen to her, we just dont know...just avoid the possibilities....she doesnt want anything serious? so y need tell the 50s guy? whats the purpose?..OMG!
2007-03-30 21:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by yumemiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear girl !
do you know why women are so angry and bitter towards this world and why we have several Women's Liberaton Groups?That is bcoz we have been used as a 'sex object' only and later as a 'baby producing' machine - every girls wishes to have some young,handsome Prince - that she read in fairy tales - but what happened was that some old haggard man bought (maybe becoz she was poor) or just used her .....I have written explicit details on this particular topic here :
http://www.creativity.itsybitsy.co.in/feb07/feminist.htm
ask ur friend to look for someone between 23 to 28 - there are many boys who are unloved - who wud actually bring the stars to your feet - just Love and loyality is reqd.
2007-03-30 19:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Aparna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I'm 19 too and I'm engaged to a 44-year-old man and in our case it's true love.
Maybe your friend just feel confortable in a kind of relationship like that. Maybe it was not normal in the beginning but when the love happens, everything is normal and true...
2007-04-03 09:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by garota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens. I usually find these types of relationship run there course when the lessen is learned for the the younger person.
2007-03-30 19:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the size of her breasts.....
2007-03-30 19:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by GregK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋