I think one of the new co-worker girls likes me, but she has a boyfriend. We made eye contact, but we didn't smile. Than next day we made eye contact again and she smile at me. I saw her at lunch siting by herself and I talk to her. She brought up that she has a boyfriend and saids he's doing bad in school and stuff. That could of been a sign, that she wanted me to asked her out, but I didn't. We talk about other stuff too. Everytime we walk past by each other she smiles at me. She even tries to go on break when I go on break. But I pretend I don't notice that. The other day she asked me while I was on break, if I work on Friday. So it's obvious she wants me to asked her out, but i'm not going to cause she has a boyfriend. If I was interested in her do I show her? Or let her make the moves? We are in our late teens. I don't want to hear about don't date co-workers and etc... It's not like were both going to work there forever. The other day we made eye contact and we both smile at each other while we were walking past each other. As we walk past she turn around and kept smiling.
ONE TIME I WALK BY HER AND SHE SMILE AT ME, AND I DIDN'T AND SHE GOT A BIG FRAWN ON HER FACE. I felt REALLY BAD, BUT she shouldn't be flirting with me while she has a boyfriend.. She's very quiet and quite shy at work. She's been working there for a couple of months now
2007-03-30 16:10:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it sounds like we have flirt on our hands....im almost positive its the fact that she loves her boyfriend but she would love to hook up with you just once cuz theres a connection but at the same time she doesnt want to ruin what she has with him so it may be a fun hook up but i doubt it will last ...sorry<3
2007-03-31 05:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing by not trying to pursue a reationship with her, because even though she may flirt with you, she probably doesnt really want anything serious with you if she's still with her boyfriend. She sounds like she may be just a big flirt(which is fine, I am too) but you obviously don't just want a hook-up, you want a real girlfriend. I'm a girl and I can tell you we love attention. she's probably confused because she's used to guys falling all over her if she's a pretty girl, and she can't understand why you arent, so she's trying harder. we do stuff like that sometimes. so my advice is, if you really like her wait until she gets out of her current relationship to make a move but in the meantime find other *unattached* girls to kick it with.
2007-03-30 23:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by brendann-bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right about one thing why tell you about her boyfriend then turn around and flirt with you that doesn't make any sense. She definitely wants something from you.You no the saying,you want what you can't have.She coming after you because you are playing hard to get.For your own good don't get involved with her because she does have a boyfriend and she is going to keep him.If you do want to go out with her just say to her when you and your boyfriend brake up give me a call and leave it at that no more needs to be said.One thing if she does brake it off with her boyfriend and the two of you start something up be prepared because 9 out of 10 that brake up go back together so be careful with your heart.
2007-03-30 23:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The boyfriend does not sound serious. Maybe she is looking to actually go out with someone decent. It is honorable that you respect that she has a boyfriend. You ask what kind of girl she is. I would say she is insecure, and kinda needs a boyfriend for self esteem.
Next time she brings up her boyfriend, mention how fortunate he is. She will get the hint.
2007-03-30 23:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by l00k_up 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do think u should ask her but if she has a boyfriend then just lay low 4 a while and then see if she still feels the same way she did when she had a boyfriend
2007-03-30 23:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by glamorousdiva92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day ask her if she wants to go out to lunch and take it from there. I think she does have feelings for you but don't make things too obvious, just flirt here and there.
2007-03-30 23:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To me, it doesn't seem "obvious" that she likes you. She seems like a friendly girl who is glad to have a friend at work. Try just being her friend for a while. If she wants to take it further, she will.
2007-03-30 23:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Vesentine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may-be she is just new there and has no one to talk to and is just trying to make friends
2007-03-31 01:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i think shes in to you take the chance good luck
2007-03-31 00:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay in school.
2007-03-31 00:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋