He's black and I'm white by the way.
2007-03-30 15:30:10 · 14 answers · asked by Brandy Belle 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It's alright as long as he doesn't b*tch-slap you while he's doing it
[that will come later].
2007-03-30 15:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by SIMONSEZ 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Uve got yourself a handful. There is only one thing I can gather from that descrition: he has a disturbed mind. I date white men, and if any of them ever try using racial slurs when we are in bed, I could do something to that thing of his lol. Never happened to me, and probably wont.
2007-04-01 15:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says it in the bedroom, stay out of the bedroom. I'd say a guy who insults you and hurts you to turn himself on should be sleeping by his own lonely unworthy self.
You can do better honey. How's about a guy who knows a good thing when he's got it?
2007-03-30 22:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO. No and NO!
When a person uses intimate moments to ridicule another person, it is not a relationship .. it is an abuser (him) and his victim (you).
Remember:
1... verbal abuse escalates to physical abuse and sometimes death of the victim;
2... skin color does not matter; when someone cares, they do not verbally abuse their partner!
3... sadly, no matter what you do, no matter how much you love and no matter how much you give, you will never be able to 'fix' him, dear.
This would be a good time to ask yourself why you tolerate this jerk. My recommendation would be to RUN .. and don't look back. Your life may depend upon it.
2007-03-30 22:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by ax2usn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't know if that's normal, seeing as I'm not a black man. I'd guess not though. If you're serious, it's probably a fetish. If this makes you're uncomfortable, tell him so. Making love with you're significant other is supposed to give sastifaction to you both, if you dislike something, you should make him aware of it.
2007-03-30 22:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by JustBreathe 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever thought about the fact that he means what he is saying. if its alright with you, its alright with me. there are black men that hate white women and have sex with them. i bet he talk about you like a dog to his friends. i hear the crap all the time, i tell them to shut up and i ask them why they doin that? these guys laugh about it. they are all married to black women, the guys i know.
2007-03-30 22:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by LENA 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound too great to me!
Some people like to feel superior in order to upbuild themselves.
I'd look for someone that feels good by building you up.
2007-03-30 22:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by i.c. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about, if it offends you. Some people have weird fantasies. I wouldn't tolerant that from a man within or outside of my race, so I don't think you should tolerant that either.
2007-03-30 22:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
thats demeaning. i dont care if it turns him on. u shouldnt accept or tolerate that kind of disrespect. by the way, NOT NORMAL.
2007-03-30 22:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by m.r.z.c.a.r.t.e.r.™ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he's not talking about you on the sly you must be really happy that you got a black boyfriend because all your questions you are talking about him, he must be a weak black man
2007-03-30 23:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by TJSexyman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is your boyfriend Bryant Gumbel by chance?
2007-03-30 22:37:51 · answer #11 · answered by ericaofgordon 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋