If you're single, do you wish you were married? And if you're married, do you wish you were single again?
2007-03-30 12:50:11 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was with this guy for one year i knew him for five and at first i did not like him.And then i started thinking what if he is the man i am meant to be with i don't want to be alone the rest of my life. But after a year we had more bad times then good and he was really selfish and it made me realize my real reason for being with him was just because i was afraid to be alone.
So i look at it this way if you are with someone and miserable maybe you-re with them for all the wrong reasons. so yes the saying i believe to be true because after going threw what could have been a total disaster i realized being single may be sad. But if you just take you time and try not to rush into something just because everyone has what you wish you had. Most of my friends are married and let me tell you they all tell me to take my time and when Gods sees fit to send me Mr.right it will not be miserable it will be worth the wait . Yes i am sad because all my friends are married and i am still single but i have been really close to getting married to the WRONG man but reality kicked me in the but. And i have realized being single can be very fun because every time i see a cute guy i don't feel guilty if i approach him .and you never know that one person across the room could be the right one. So hang in their and don't give up good things come to those who wait.
2007-03-30 13:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by dawn_mrcl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm single and I happy as heck, because I am enjoying life and just everything is my motivation, friends, family, the small good things that we see all around us. I'm single but I don't wish I was married, and if you are married and miserable maybe you should try different things with your partner, like go out more, surprise each other, go to fancy restaurants. And not because you are married or single doesn't mean you have to be sad or miserable, I mean I know a lot of couples who have loved each other no matter what the circumstances are, and example my parents, and I am very grateful for that.!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-30 12:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Little-one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be married to be happy. Being single doesn't mean you'll be miserable either. Both (marriage and being single) has its ups and downs.....but doesn't everything else in life? Work, home, friends, family. Think about it.
Marriage isn't for everyone. Being single doesn't mean one has a problem either (I think we all do, at least in some part) - I'd like to get married one day. But only once and for the right reason - not twice or three times......I don't think anyone wants to be alone. Besides, I know married and single people and none of them seem too happy regardless.
2007-03-30 13:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am single; i desire a spouse and everyone does but I am happy because I am still young; it is never to late to get married as long as you live it is an opportunity; it is nothing like marrying the right person and i would definetly stay single before i married any old thing just to be married and i have no problem being alone; ive learned to love me and enjoy my own company. and if i need some companionship i have a few men friends i can hang out with for that from time to time. you only live once and every body not getting married ; you got to learn to work with what you have
2007-03-30 12:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by t.C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating and miserable... So i guess that is an option also. I would love to be dating and happy or single and happy. I just dont want to break up with my boyfriend. Also if you are getting married then you need to keep a positive attitude that even if bad times come you'll still be happy in the end!
2007-03-30 13:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and miserable. I wish I was single again. I would have never gotten involved in a marriage if I could restart my life all over again. I think I rather live by myself!!
2007-03-30 13:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 3 times and now I am a Very Happy Single.
I have no explaining to do except to my dog.
2007-03-30 12:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by dVille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever said that must have understood human nature very well. I am single but I am not always sad. And even though I am a witness to a lot of separations and divorces, I still want to get married to the love of my life.
2007-03-30 12:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single and sad sometimes and other times I'm happy. In some ways it's nice to be single because you don't have to answer to no one but yourself. And you can do what you want when you want. But sometimes it would be nice to be married to someone that you loved and could share your life with.
2007-03-31 02:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the person as there are a lot of
single people out there that are happy and sad
and there are a lot of married people out there
that are miserable and happy, I am married and
definately happy just over 20yrs.
2007-03-30 14:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋