Tomorrow, I am supposed to see one of my friends and go shopping. She is the same one who has gotten the new "trashy" friends. I have a feeling that she will bail on me to hang with them. I don't want to be left with nothing to do. Should I make other plans now just in case, or should I just wait and see if she will call and actually go shopping with me? I'm just worried that I will be sitting in another day and I've been down lately and I want to have something to do.
2007-03-30 11:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by confused soul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by the way, she is with the "trashy" friends tonight =(. Otherwise, I would call her.
2007-03-30 11:54:55 · update #1
Yeah, I've been in that situation before, yeah you should see if your going shopping, and if she says yes then just make other plans just in case, like a movie or something, good luck, hope you don't get ditched haha
2007-03-30 11:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by khadεsia. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and confirm. If she leaves you high and dry don't make plans with her again. But don't make "just in case" plans, it isn't fair to the other person. She doesn't sound like much of a friend.
2007-03-30 18:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans with other friends and invite her to join. This way you are taking back your power and if she bails, you have a back up plan.
2007-03-30 18:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her tonight to make sure ur plans are still on
and yea, it never hurts to make other plans.... its just to make sure things are covered. When i have plans with certain pple, i always make a back up plan. theres nothing wrong with doin that. :)
2007-03-30 18:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a plan but give her a chance just because her new friend is trash doesn't mean she is
2007-03-30 18:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋