I was sad and lonley during my marital seperation made a bad choice slept with an ex.bf who called to wish me a happy b-day.He got me pregnant and dont know how to tell him? I am now 38 weeks along.Problem is that he is engaged i tried calling him but his gf picked up all three times.We used to dated in HS for 6 months.Through college we had a few flings even though he was dating his gf now fiancee.Should i wait to tell him he is going to be a dad till after his wedding ?I will be moving back in with my parents for help with baby most he lives in the same area as they do still.
2007-03-30 11:25:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will my affair and pregnancy look bad in court?
2007-03-30 11:32:54 · update #1
I have a pending divorce on top of everything.
2007-03-30 11:34:51 · update #2
You say you are married. That should indicate a certain level of maturity. At least enough to know to use birth control when sleeping around. If the pregnancy happened when you were split from your husband it should not bode bad for you in court. However you should let the father know immediately since you did not do so 30 weeks ago when you should have. Also let him know you will be asking for child support. You don't sound mature enough to have a child so please for the kids sake take some parenting classes. Have you been checked for AIDS and other STDs?
2007-03-30 11:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't learn very much growing up did you?
This is a really sad situation. The only one I feel sorry for is the child. You need to tell the child's REAL FATHER NOW!! At least give the poor woman he's planning to marry a choice as to whether she wants to marry a cheating SOB or not.
Do something right for a change. Call him and if she answers, tell her what is going on and that you really need to speak with him!
2007-03-30 18:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an e-mail and tell him. Why wait to dump this on him until after the wedding? If this ugly sh1t comes out, it should do so before his marriage, so his fiancé can walk out on him without a hassle if she chooses to do so. I don't know how your pregnancy might affect your divorce. From a common-sense standpoint, it shouldn't affect anything at all - everything you do after the separation is your personal business; but common sense is not always a guide in such situations.
2007-03-30 18:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still married? if so, i'd tell your husband first. then take it from there. if your not married then tell the father.he may be getting married but your having a baby. you don't have much time before the baby's born. he's gonna figure it out sooner or later if you live in the same town.
2007-03-30 18:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh, so when does your episode of Jerry Springer air? I hope you remembered to wear a leopard print bra, you skanky ho!
2007-03-30 18:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋