I feel that the person I was with has this trait. That is why he froze the building society account and the only way we can get money out is if I meet him with my passport. I will not meet him because this is the only way he can control me and I will not be controlled anymore. WELL RID OF HIM. Roll on the divorce.
2007-03-30 11:09:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has left for a girl the same age as our daughter but he still wants control. Do you understand narcissism? or betrayal?
2007-03-30 11:22:02 · update #1
Please visit my website that deals with psychopathic predators. I will say you are clued in and they hate that. Be very careful until you get a good handle on this personality. Push to hard and they are subject to snap.
2007-03-30 12:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissism usually results from low self esteem. His behavior does not suggest Narcissism. It suggests that he wants a say in spending the building society money. Whose money is it? Have you had an honest discussion about this with him?
2007-03-30 18:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure as hell do. My mom has it and she ruined my entire childhood making me put up with it. Check out these books:
*Children of the Self-Absorbed by Nina W. Brown
*Loving the Self-Absorbed by Nina W. Brown
*The Emotionally Abusive Relationship by Beverly Engel
They should give you some insight. Also look up Dr. Sam Vaknin on the internet. He has a Yahoo! group called Narcissistic Abuse.
2007-03-30 18:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissism is the love of oneself. He may well have be possessed of this trait but that doesn't really cover him freezing the accounts etc.
2007-03-30 18:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
narcissism is a trait of self love. narcissistic people are truly in love with themselves. it's not really a matter of controlling you in that sense,but control that your last breath be about him and his needs constantly.hope this helps
2007-03-30 18:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by laro816 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissism describes the character trait of self love.The term is often used as pejoratives, denoting vanity, conceit, egotism or simple selfishness.
2007-03-30 18:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~Angel Eyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) :
How to Recognize a Narcissist
http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/index.html
2007-03-30 18:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Narcissist is someone who is totally in love with themselves, unless you love them totally they'll have no time for you. If that is what your husband is then you are well rid of him.
2007-03-30 18:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Loxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Building society account? Perhaps I do not speak your dialect, so follow your heart, do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
2007-03-30 18:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for putting that question on. I didnt know what it meant to be honest, but now I realise, my husband suffers from it. God has it caused problems. Its nice to be able to have a word to use for it all. Thank you!!!!!!
2007-03-30 19:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋