2007-03-30 11:05:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He "loves" you but he's marrying another...........quit kidding yourself. He's used you and nothing more. Get over him and move on.
2007-03-30 11:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he loves is the fact that he is getting to have his cake and eat it too. Are you trying to "win" him over by getting to cancel his wedding and run away with you? If you did succeed in this you aren't winning anything but a boobie prize. You get nothing but a man that has no regards for people's feelings (how would his bride-to-be feel?) and that cheats!!! Continuing this relationship will hurt you and the bride-to-be. Be considerate and have some self-respect. You deserve to be number one. Stay away!!
2007-03-30 18:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by missliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living in a fantasy. Stay away from other women's men. If he loved you, you would know it and he would not be marrying the woman he does love. Butt out.
2007-03-30 18:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key words - he's getting married!! He hasn't called it off so he prolly doesnt care for U - he just wanted a lil fling b4 marriage...so 4get it, move on,stay completely away from him - AND QUIT STEALING WOMENS MEN!!!!!
- How would U like it?????????
Thats what I thought!!
2007-03-30 22:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting married to somebody else, not you. you may love him but doesnt sound like he loves you coz if he does he already cancelled the wedding ang you wont be asking this question. there is somebody there just for you. unfortunately, he's not the one. go on with your life.
2007-03-30 18:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better talk to him BEFORE he says I do.Otherwise youll be saddled with step kids who hate your guts and will seek for and invent ways to make your life a living hell for destroying their family, not to mention the bitter ex.
2007-03-30 18:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you think his fiancee is a lucky girl and put the ball in his court. If he does not call off the marriage, then let it go.
2007-03-30 18:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he'd stop getting married, read the book "he's just not that into you" - see the light...
2007-03-30 18:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by smlingrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. You're not in love, you just think you are. Stay out of his marriage and his life.
2007-03-30 18:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of us face this dilemma.
I have to agree with violet
Get out of his life ..he was too blind ,for not having seen your feelings for him.It seems u really liked him
Accept the loss gracefully.
cry it out if necessary.be strong.god bless you.
You'll be allright..dont worry about it...Its all for the best.
.Its his loss not urs.
Get a vacation.and delete/burn all traces that remind u of him.
pssssst ..i m single too ...lol.
2007-03-30 18:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by C'est le vie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋