2007-03-30 11:03:19 · 34 answers · asked by bk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would it not be okay? It's a piece of cake...did she bake her home number into it??
2007-03-30 11:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dodger's mom 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Did she specifically make the cake for him? If so, then yes thats inappropriate and not ok! If however he just brought home a piece of cake from the office to munch on later there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Dont stress.
2007-03-30 11:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_Addy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting way to excited over a piece of cake.Just because someone bakes her co-worker(s) A cake.Doesn't mean she is lusting after them.It means she likes to cook.When I was working I brought in cake,brownies,All sorts of baked goods.And none of my co-workers or their spouses had a problem.In fact, I had a lot of people ask me to teach them how to make the deserts.And I can tell you this much.It was all about the deserts and the joy of seeing my co-works enjoy them.It had nothing to do with being attracted to anyone of them.I have a gorgeous hubby at home and none of my co-workers could hold a candle to him.So before you go off on some trip.Maybe you should learn more about what is going on.And not just make assumptions about the person making the cake.For all you know the person that made the cake.Could be happily married or gay.Just because they baked a cake is no reason to assume they are home wrecker or something.
2007-03-30 11:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on his intentions. If he brought the cake home so that you could have some of it, I'd say it's probably harmless. You could ask why the cake was brought to the office, and what makes it so good. If he is obsessing about the cake, or the woman, than no it is not ok. You need to communicate your feelings to him.
2007-03-30 11:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by notarycat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its only not OK if its
a) a picture cake of said baker with out clothing
b) he's not sharing
c) you're on a diet and have a sneaking suspicion that he's trying to get you off of it
d) he's on a diet
Who made the cake doesn't really matter. It was a piece, not a whole cake, so more likely than not, she didn't just bring it for him!!!
2007-03-30 13:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anah B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are creating a problem where none exists. Would you rather he sneak around and eat the cake in the park? If he had anything to hide he would not have brought the cake home.
If however, he brings her home and wants a piece, you have a real problem.
2007-03-30 11:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a touch insecure, ain't ya? Look, people bring goodies into the office to share all the time. It's part of what helps make the work environment a little less stressful. My wife works; I'm disabled and retired - so I bake stuff for her to take in and share with her co-workers, male and female alike. I often hear that some guy goes home with any leftover cake or cookies my wife took to work that day. And my response is, I hope he enjoys it and shares it with his wife and kids if he has any. You, my dear, need to lighten up before you drive him away and into the arms of another woman!
2007-03-30 15:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she made the cake for HIM then yeah thats odd I might worry but I know myself I make cakes and pies and cookies for everyone at work I love to bake so alot of married men will eat what I bring to work or bring some bring it home no big deal I dont even know them so maybe its innocent you know.
2007-03-30 11:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Dodger ... Is there something more to it? Has she been flirting with only him & made the cake for HIM ? Do they have a history? Did he make a big deal about the cake? Just with what you have told us I cant find a problem with it unless you are overly jelouse. Think about it, Its just cake. Let him eat his cake, You serve him his whip cream ;)
2007-03-30 11:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by littlejewel34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, cool it on the jealous thing. Its just a piece of cake, not a big deal. In the "true" adult world, men and women can be friends without anything more.
2007-03-30 11:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by rosie768 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm theres really nothing wrong with that. You shouldnt take those kind of little things too seriously.
Its just a piece of cake, no big deal.
Why do you feel its not okay?
2007-03-30 11:12:13 · answer #11 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋