i am 42 male married who fell in love with a 30 year old stewardess.i truly love her very much and have been trying my best by helping her with everything that i can.doing things for her buying almost everything she wants running errands helping with her family but she doesnt seem to have any love for me.she has been with many guys but they never last.she is a very pessimictic person who doesnt see any good in anything.she says this is because of her past.i feel like i am only needed if her friends are not around or if things need to be done.it s so difficult for me to let go .pls advice.
2007-03-30 10:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by purplehawk2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ah hem.. it's flight attendant :) Anyway, you did not specify if she was your wife. Either way, she sounds like she's using you. Decide to spend the next week as an observer. Really take in her behavior. If you think she is just using you, it's bound to get worse. Get out now because holding on will only make it harder on you and on top of emotional attachment she could bring down your quality of life. Why are you so in love with her if she treats you like crap? Do a self esteem check. Are you with her because she's pretty and she makes you feel better about yourself?
2007-03-30 10:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope you not planning to spend your life like this.
The two keys to a happy relationship are don't be selfish don't marry someone who is. Now witch one did you blow.
Besides, your 42 and she's 30 -- what do you think this is about anyway, you got something cute and she's got a new dad excuse me wallet and your doting around probably tickles her to no end in front of her friends.
Grow up get a women
2007-03-30 10:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one YOUR A CHEAT! and you are sugar DADDY.!Get real stop buying her things i bet she doesn't want you or she has her way with you then boom got some bill money etc and your wife deserves for you to tell the truth the only reason you are staying is because you are not sure about the other one wanting you your are pathetic
2007-03-30 10:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by roncj88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married? Go to your wife and leave the 30 year old alone. She's just using you.
2007-03-30 10:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she love you if not move on there are many women that want your love I know I have felt the same as you
2007-03-30 10:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. you cheated on your wife. you feel in 'love' with another woman. but, she clearly doesn't love you back. (how's that for pessimictic!) that's probably your karma. she doesn't love you. but, your wife does. and that's probably what cheating betches will always have to fall back on, huh?
Good luck with your problem, may you find your way.
2007-03-30 10:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is for life and you chose to marry her you need to stick out and talk to her
2007-03-30 10:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you and you are letting her. Wake up!
2007-03-30 10:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her about how you feel and talk to her!
2007-03-30 10:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it
2007-03-30 10:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋