Ok, so there's this guy that live's down the street. His name is Jason. He is amazing. He's the funniest guy I've ever met, he is sweet, and just plain cute. I really like him, but the problem is we've been friends for years, and I think if I told him and he doesn't like me "that way" then it could seriously screw up our friendship.
And, my friends all think that he likes me, but I don't. Here are the reasons they think that he likes me...
1) He is always showing off when i am there
2) He is really really nice to me
3) when he sits on the grass when we are bored, he always makes sure it's next to me.
4) when he comes to ask if i can hang out ill say IDK and he'll say PLZZZZZ
5) i heard my other neighbor ask him "Jason, did you tell her?" and Jason says "no i will later" and then he gives me a look out of the corner of his eye. {he didnt know i was watching/listening}
---and that is about it ---
PLEASE ANSWER!
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO DOES!
<3 Alex <3
2007-03-30 09:57:11 · 21 answers · asked by Sam L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
open communication is the start to any good relationshipnot third party chats
2007-03-30 09:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and tell him how you feel. If you don't, you'll regret it the rest of your life! You really have nothing to lose, If he's not interested, but yet he's a good friend like you said, then telling him that you like him won't ruin the friendship!! I've been in a situation like yours , and I did absolutely nothing because I was afraid of what he would say, and guess what, now I am upset that I let the moment pass me by and I regret it terribly!! Please tell him, you'll feel so much better after wards, and It sounds as if he's really into you, but has the same worries that you do!!!!
2007-03-30 17:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by smileygabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you definitely have a crush on him. I don't know about this because there is too much guessing. It seems as if you're trying to read his mind or something. Don't be so anxious ... relax. Don't try to read him... let him express himself. True, those are all signs that he may like you, but those very same signs could just be the start a beautiful friendship. Don't put all kinds of lovey dovey thoughts in your mind especially if you haven't heard him tell you or if you don't know the truth. You could find yourself very stressed. Relax and let him come to you. Stop trying to interpret his actions. Listen for the words...
2007-03-30 17:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jayla32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. this guy likes you.. no doubt.. you should know better then that.. but hey its ok.. but for sure he does.. if you heard that... thats when you should have been like. "ask me what"
maybe he will ask you out.. or to a date or dance or something? whatever it is.. he has been planning it a long time if the neighbors know about it.. ya know? next time he comes over ask for you to go out with him.. next time say something.. ill only go if you concider it a date" or "why me?" or "why? are you takeing me on a date?" something flirty and cute.. ya know.. and something you can always turn into a joke.. if it goes bad.. yah know.."O i was just playing with you" but you only say that if you dont know if he likes you and im about 100% SURE HE DOES... he seems like a great guy.. he wont be single forever.. so go get him now while you still can.. b4 some other hottie catches his eye.. good luck
2007-03-30 17:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and i had the same problem as you...but right now you are in a bad possition right now. You are good friends with Jason and if you are friends you might both like each other but maybe going out will ruin your friendship. But maybe not. Its pretty much a 50/50 chance. u should talk to him. just one day give him the biggest hug... and see his reaction. good luck and hopes it works out for you.
2007-03-30 17:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by drummerkid525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are friends then you should be able to pretty much talk about anything. TELL HIM! Maybe he really does feel the same way. If not, hopefully, he'll be friend enough to tell you right away instead of playing games. It will be awkward at first but if your feelings are unrequited, you'll both get over it and still be able to remain friends.
2007-03-30 17:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by toyanlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm tough one. If you tell him your interested, know it might make the friendship weird. But will you regret it if you dont? Many of the best relationships start as friends. I say kiss em and see what happens. Many of my guy friendships have been tested that way, just to make sure there was no chemistry, and we could still be friends after that. Just dont hesitate so long and make it awkward. Do it or not.
2007-03-30 17:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i can help you i'm kinda going through the same thing theres a guy in me class and he's so hot he's my guy freind we have so much in common but he likes another girl but the thing is he stares at me all the time and he even said he likes messing around with me so heres what you do find him and tell him how you feel and if he just wants to be freinds there's other fish in the sea take it from a girl who has the same problom bit if your just freinds and you want him to like you dont put on some nice clothes are good makeup be yourself oh and one more thing follow your heart GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-30 17:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Risa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Worst that can happen is he doesn't feel the same way. If that's the case, you guys should have a strong enough friendship to put it behind you. Speaking from a guys perspective though, I don't think you need to worry about that.
2007-03-30 17:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should just ask him out see what happens but if you value the friendship you should wait for him to make the move first sometimes it wrecks a friendship so it's up to you how much you want a boyfriend or how good of a friend is he too keep it that way
2007-03-30 17:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by huff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is married to this day with one of her close friends in school. She also dated some of her friends while she was in school and they would just decide that they were better off as friends and it never affected their relationship. You may be letting the best thing in your life go away. Your partner or spouse sholud be your best friend in life anyway. You just have a head start.
2007-03-30 17:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by cosgirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋