what can my wife and i do to save our marriage?

Answer 1

Talk to each other, try to bring back some romance, joke around with each other. Become friends again.

Answer 2

Not sure what the problem is with your marriage. But one thing I would suggest is complete honesty if it is an issue. Tell eachother exactly how you feel and why. Try to find solutions together. There is nothing better than being able to be completely open with your wife. You could possibly recreate your first date. Try to drum up those old feelings of a young love. Even get out the old photos of when you were both young and dating. Together reflect back to a time when things were much less complicated. Forget about todays problems and remember yesterdays love. Remember how you couldn't wait to be with her. Think about what had drawn you two together. Life gets to us all and sometimes we forget to stop and smell the roses. Appreciate all that your marriage has made it through and know that this will only make your marriage stronger. Keep fighting for your marriage and things will turn out fine. When someone quits fighting for it is when all is lost. Good Luck & God Bless!

Answer 3

One of the biggest causes of a failing marriage is a loss of communication.. Most of the time one, or both people feel neglected somehow.. Emotionally, physically, even verbally!! If one person feels down about them self, and also feels that the other person does not care, this often leads to the placing of a wall.. Leaving both people not wanting to communicate..

sit down and try to break down the walls.. you may find out things that you had no idea were happening.. feeling unloved, unwanted, hated.. if you sit and talk it out really try to talk about all the feelings you have either you will rebuild a strength in your relationship, and get that spark back, or you will be able to mutually agree there is a problem, and then work on fixing it.

Answer 4

spend at least 15 hours a week together. Do fun things during that time. These things should be something that will allow you to enjoy each others company and conversation. A movie wouldn't work very well. Try to spend the rest of you life doing things to make each other happy. Avoid anything that may hurt or annoy each other. Remember you promised to protect each other in your wedding vows. That also means protecting each other from yourselves.

Answer 5

Don't distance yourself too far because she'll feel as if she's losing you. Possibly try going out on dates that both of you would like. I don't know what the real problem is that's tearing you apart but if you know what it is, and if it's you that's causing the hurt then fix it buddy. But if she's causing the hurt and not trying to help it then you should leave her. Some things happen for a reason.

Answer 6

Depends what's wrong with it. Have you tried counselling? There'd probably be better advice there than there is here. I've been married for ten years (almost) and the only thing that got us through the tough times was a lifetime commitment to God and eachother. We don't consider divorce an option, and certainly not remarriage. When you look at your partner and tell yourself it's them or nobody, I guess you look for ways to make it work. :-) I wish you guys well; don't give up.

Answer 7

Communication is the key! It builds trust and the love that comes along with the trust will be much stronger than ever before. You must talk about your troubles and be a good listener as well as a talker.

Good luck to you!

Answer 8

it is hard to say without knowing the situation. try to sit down and each go over your issues without fighting. lay it ll out on the table. work on solutions to fix the problems and possibly seek a marriage counslor. maybe find something you can do to gether just the two of you , that you will both enjoy. like fishing or hiking at the park. something you can do to bond together and learn a new skill.

Answer 9

I'm sure this is a serious question but you don't provide enough details to give an answer. I'll check back if you do and edit my answer to give some help, but all I can offer is love each other, give for each other, never try to hurt each other and forgive each other.

Answer 10

Maybe if you guys live apart for a while that would give you the chance to miss each other. Or live apart and start dating all over again, you know fall in love again

Answer 11

Pray together and do activities together. Marriages are work just like your 9 to 5. You can't get married and put it on cruise control, you have to keep your foot on the pedals.