mama is pregnant...I feel hurt and betrayed she says she needs nothing from him, she know he will pay his support, I can't stand her or him, her first thing was to call and gloat, and she wanted to know if he had told me, and yes he had!! I feel so disgusted at both of them, I know I should kick him to the curb, and I will, although he has begged for forgiveness but its too late, he is bending over backwards, he is too embarassed to tell anyone about this situation HE has put himself into, so no one in his family nor friends will know, only me!!! Can someone help my mind is in the clouds, she called and says she is 5wks pregant, but she doesn't want to give him any more info, he tried calling her ob/gyn to get info, he doesn't think its his, she is always lying, but they were together he said only once..he must have magic sperm.I've never spoken to her, its his situation with the other kid, but now I want to ask her some questions with hm present. for my peace of mind should I?
2007-03-30 08:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by reina l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
So, he cheated on you with her and get her pregnant? I would be more interested in those details than anything else. If you can't trust your man, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. It sounds like you do need to kick him to the curb and let him sort out his problems because they aren't yours to deal with.
2007-03-30 09:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this but... I think you should lose the loser and move on. If she became pregnant, chances are they were together more times than once because a girl can only become pregnant 4 days out of an entire month. Just be thankful it's her that is pregnant and not you. She is the one that will now have to put up with the cheater for the rest of her life because of this baby... not you. Now's your chance to jump ship and find someone who treats you better. KJ
2007-03-30 16:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to tell him first of all to have a test done to see if the baby is his. He doesnt need to make any promises to her to pay for this baby until he knows 100% that its his. Secondly, he cheated on you. If you can handle that and you dont think it will hurt your future then you really need to look at yourself. Give yourself more credit than that, if he did it once he WILL do it again. Expecially if you let him get away with it. So..one way or the other if the baby is or isnt his you still need to take in the fact that he cheated and obviously wasnt careful. Respect yourself and get rid of him, not only will this take a toll on your emotional state but also your physical state, who knows when he may get a disease and just pass it right on to you. Good luck and be careful.
2007-03-30 16:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....sounds like something I went through almost 10 years ago!...But I wasnt smart enough and stayed in the lie of a relationship and ended up getting pregnant my self. IF you know whats good for ya get outta that situation its not good. He obviously has not respect for you, has not got over that chick and more then likely he will continue to see her. She will continue to throw things in your face and as for finding out more information oh im sure she will do nothing ut tell you everything or make up stuff that will get you even more upset. Girl, you are way better then that. Start realizing it. BOUNCE!
2007-03-30 18:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Princessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you this but kick his butt to the curb. Why even bother asking the questions that you already know the answers to. You're only gonna be more hurt if they tell you the truth that's if they even tell you the truth. He cheated, lost your trust, and lost your respect what more is there to say. Dump that loser, let him deal with his own problems and move on with your life. Best of luck.
2007-03-30 16:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is stupid first of all he cheated on you.so whether her kid is his or not is not important the fact is it could be which if he isnt a total retard he will demand a dna test because she could be lying just to break the two of you up.it only takes once so it might be his either way you deserve better.dump him he will cheat with her again cause he still wants her.good luck to you.
2007-03-30 16:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that guy. Break up with him for good so he realizes what a dumbass he was! So what if he is bending over backwards AND WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? BREAK UP NOW. And when someone asks why you broke up....his family, friends, etc...tell them exactly why. He is an *******.
2007-03-30 16:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with the questions. You may never get the truth anyway. Just let him go. Even if it isn't his baby, he cheated. You don't need the sordid details.
Let it and him go.
2007-03-30 16:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋