A Friend of mine cheats on his wife BUT he tells me they fall out all the time , and when they have a fall out the weapon she uses is "NO SEX" Some is he right too look elsewhere for sex when they fall out and she denies him sex for long periods at a time is my question. THANK YOU
2007-03-30 08:56:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think so . The guy has a uncontrollable urge whats he suppose to do choke his chicken when God said he would rather you plant your seed in the belly of a whore rather then spill it on the ground
When a weapon is drawn you either get yours out or die . They just don't have any communication and are still acting like kids.
2007-03-30 09:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your friend needs to get a divorce. He's just using the falling out thing as an excuse to cheat. If he really loved her he'd work with her to solve the problem and then she'd give him sex. He sounds like he got married too soon or married the wrong woman. You should tell him to talk to his girl and get a divorce before she finds out and does it for him.
2007-03-30 09:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If wife denies sex completely and uses it as a weapon, that is a sign of a troubled marriage. They need to work on that as a couple. The problem is - you make it sound like he might choose to pick a fight with her in order for him to justify seeing his other girl, which is bizarre and immoral.
2007-03-30 09:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in cheating, but, I'm a firm believer in "legal separation". Cheating doesn't help his relationship with her in terms of resolving the issue. The issue is, they have a difficult time dealing with problems within there house. As long as he cheats, she's free to continue doing what she does and well as he is. Separation says, we need space to think about how we will work things out going forward. You don't want to have sex, alright, I'll deny you of the conversation and the satisfaction of seeing me in a frustrated state to punish me. She'll see that he's serious about it.
2007-03-30 09:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by clayborne112 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. He should divorce her if he does not want to be with her anymore. He took a vow when he got married, and I'm pretty sure that the vow didn't say "unless you withhold sex from me, in which case I'll find it somewhere else."
Maybe suggest couple's counseling for them, so they can learn other ways to communicate anger besides withholding sex and cheating.
2007-03-30 09:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by AClaire 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No....no matter what the reason is,it's still not right to cheat. How if its in the other way around,would u want the wife of ur friend cheat on him bcz of the same reason?
They have to settle things first if possible,they need to have a serious talks about it a heart to heart talks,maybe seek a counselor...if needed. Cheating is not acceptable.
2007-03-30 09:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by blue girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce the wife! Sex should never be used as a weapon!
2007-03-30 09:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by hvholli 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's never a good reason to cheat. If they're having problems, they need to work those out. If he/she cheats and the other finds out, it will make things worse and possibly end it. If one doesn't want to be with the other anymore, then it's time to start making changes.
2007-03-30 09:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is often a danger of having caught.What in case you get an STD and additionally you provide it on your spouse? she will understand you slept with somebody else and she or he will kick your sorry pathetic *** to the decrease and that i'm sorry yet prostitute or no longer that woman can get pregnant and what happens in case you obtain her pregnant? she will song you down and the two call you or look at your door.i think of perhaps you ought to get some new acquaintances by using fact Tim sounds like a moron oh and in case you fairly enjoyed your spouse you does not do it or extra ideal yet in case you prefer to do it why do no longer you ask your spouse what she thinks.And certainly how could you sense in the journey that your spouse went out and slept with a male prostitute?
2016-12-08 14:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by okamura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they fall out all the time and there's hardly any sex then maybe they should split up because they are not happy and then look for relationships,it's called having respect for one another!
2007-03-30 09:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋