Tips for a broken-hearted Virgo?

Question

I recently got out of a relationship with an Aries - I'm a female Virgo. Needless to say, it didn't turn out well AT ALL.

Any tips for getting over this and moving on?

Answer 1

yeah, throw the astrology bs out the window...

Answer 2

Only time will tell. Ever hear that song, "Time Changes Everything"? It's almost like you have to sleep it off, like a bad drunk, like a bad hang over. Sometimes, break-ups with Aries can be the worst of all. There's so much potential but when there's no interest anymore, there's a big empty hole where there once was something promising. I should know: I'm an Aries and my past is littered with love's ruins filled with bitterness and loss strung out over a lifetime of passion and forgetfulness.

Answer 3

Well, I know as a Virgo, it takes alot to open your heart fully to someone. It also takes a long time to heal from a break up and to be able to connect to someone again.

If you are like me and fit the typical "Virgo" mold you are probably analyzing the whys, hows, ifs...

We often hold others to high standards but our own self-standards are even higher. Give yourself 10 minutes a day for pity party time and then go on with it. Dont let self-critizing and hindsight get the best of you.

Not much can fix a broken heart but time.

Spend the time making lists (Virgos are great at that!) of things you want to do that you have yet to accomplish and get out there. You were obviously attracted to certain traits in Aries that you liked so maybe start there.

I have been here (and still there) with 2 Libras. I found it was an attraction to their personality (everything seems so easy) and realized my own pattern. Shame on me!

Humour helps a lot too ;)

Good luck!

Answer 4

As a Virgo, you learned a lesson.. Not necessarily about Aires because there are some great Aires folk out there, but you did learn what was good and not good for you personally.
Virgos have a great ability to rationalize the lesson, store it in their memory and remember not to repeat the lesson again. You will overcome it, it takes time.
Go do something for just you.. as a Virgo you give alot, go give something to yourself and make it your broken heart gift to yourself.
After you lick your wounds, realize theirs a huge hurting world out there and your skills are needed, that will help alot.
Also, there will be someone else. Trust that you will know it when you see it.. After all you are a VIRGO and you can trust your mind to know it right?
Hang in there, we've all been there.

Answer 5

If "it didn't go well at all"... Why the heck are you trying to get over? You didn't lose anything but time out of your life. There's nothing to move on from, so be happy you're just alive and continute doing what you do. The right man will show in due TIME. Time is all we have, use it wisely and have fun with it.

Answer 6

well i find alot of virgos and aries clash and let me tell you why. The virgos that I know are very technical and logical about everything and I do mean everything. Aries are very passionate and energetic. They get kind of pissed when you can't match that. Now I could sit here give you a copy and paste answer from any website,but I am being dead set honest.

Answer 7

Most Virgos, run away when they are broken hearted but again i say its not right to charecterise a person and judge them because of their star sign, i belive take this from someone who has done that and been there, forgive, forget and move on , there is someone special out there fr you, dont loose that chance the longer you brood and question the longer it will take fr him to find ya, trust me its not easy but do it, make a list of all the things you like doing and do them, make new freinds, binge out a bit on what you like eating be happy, it was ment to happen it did, its the past it has made you stronger, yes we all hurt we are humans, but trust me it will get better.Good Luck Peace!

Answer 8

find a libra man and live happily ever after