ME AND MY BOYFRIEND WENT OUT FOR 5 YEARS AND A COUPLE OF MONTHS. HE CHEATED ON ME PLENTY OF TIMES. WE HAD THIS ON AND OFF RELATIONSHIP BUT I WAS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM. WE HAD A LOT OF ARGUMENTS ABOUT LITTLE STUFF. PROBLEM GOT BIGGER AND WE WILL ARGUE ALL THE TIME. HE WAS CONTROLLING BUT SO WAS I. I WAS JEALOUS BUT SO WAS HE. AND THEN ONE RANDOM DAY HE BROKE UP WITH ME. LATER I FIND OUT HE LEFT ME FOR ANOTHRE GIRL. IM WAY HOTTER! I MEAN HIS FAMILY PREFERS ME OVER HER.
AND I RECENTLY CALLED HIM ONE NIGHT AND ASKED HIM TO COME OVER.
HE DID AND WE ENDED UP HAVING SEX.
I MEAN HE SAID HE LOVED HIS GIRL BUT DOES HE IF HE CHEATED ON HER?
WHAT DOES HE FEEL ABOUT ME?
WHERE DO I STAND?
2007-03-30 07:45:36 · 18 answers · asked by Soso916 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should stand as far away from this loser as possible. Hope he didn't infect you with anything.
2007-03-30 07:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him now...wise up..he is with another girl and will be. In the future, you need to know that only so much fighting can happen before deep scars are formed..and this has happened to you. Find someone you are compatable with...this ain't the guy. Make up sex may be good, but the cost is far to high to pay. You are throwing up smoke screens with the "family" bit...that stuff does not matter one whit...it is his emotions, his love, his investment...and he realizes that you and he may have great sex, but that is where is stops. Life is about things other than sex. You need to learn that also, control your temper, stop trying to control those about you. Life's lessons are hard, I have had one hell of bunch of them thrown at me lately, and I am still learning. I can blame no one but myself, and neither can you. All the whining in the world are not bringing this guy back, and truthfully, it would NOT be a good thing if he came back. Nothing would have changed..the fighting, the controlling, etc.
2007-03-30 07:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys really need to stay away from each other. Why do you want someone who cheats on you? Don't you think you deserve better than that? A little respect maybe? You both sound immature, especially with the comment you made "I'm way hotter"....who cares, if you guys can't be together and not cheat on one another, move on. Otherwise, you both belong on Jerry Springer.
2007-03-30 07:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to move on. Why would you want to get back with someone who trysto control you and you argue with a lot. Also if he had sex with you while he is suppose to be in love with this other girl I think he is a cheater. He left you for her so he was probably all ready cheating on you with her. Now he has just turned the table so to speak and now is cheating on her. I think you can do better.
2007-03-30 07:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem you have a toxic relationship. You can't get along when you are together, but you have strong chemistry. I think he's looking for something a little more stable. (not saying your not stable. I mean the relationship). His new relationship is probably calmer for him. He may love her, but the pull to you is strong and it's hard for him to pull away. You have a lot of history together and sometimes we get into sticky situations because of that. That doesn't necessarily mean he is looking to get back together. I would leave him alone and move on and try to find someone that you can count on. He left you once for another girl, who says he won't do it again.
2007-03-30 07:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is so wrong for you. If he cheats on you and then cheats on his new girl with you why would you want to be with a creep like this. Kick him to the curb so to speak. Don't talk to him or have any contact with him. Don't call or email. You don't want to be with a guy like that
Give yourself some time to heal and enjoy being single. The right man will come for you
2007-03-30 07:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He feels the same about you. You both have issues and ought not even be friends. So your hot. So what. So his family likes you more than the new girl of the week.
What did you think you were going to accomplish by spreading your legs. That just make you a cheap slut.
2007-03-30 07:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is based on keeping each other miserable in my opinion. You guys are not meant to be a couple. Move on and find someone you are going to be compatible with.
2007-03-30 07:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is using u, he is a cheater, cheats on u, on her, he doesn't feel enough for u to leave her, or marry u, so your wasting your time, nothing good can ever come of this. have some self respect and distance yourself from him before u end up hurt.
2007-03-30 09:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guys is playing both of you girls. he cheated on you with her and now he is cheating on her with you. I would tell the girl that he "hooked up" with you and she will prolly want to leave him, and you should leave him as well. Then he wont have any Pu$$y. He will have to find someone else to mess with.
2007-03-30 07:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no ...
You made a terrible move. You let the guy use you ... I hope you are aware of this. He only had sex with you because he knew you were weak enough to allow it.
Sorry but thats the truth .....
2007-03-30 07:50:44 · answer #11 · answered by rosie768 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋