Guys do you think it's possible to become attached to a young lady who was just suppose to be your?

Question

fuc*k buddy? Also do you think it's possible for a fuc*k buddy to be a long-term girlfriend. I have this friend who slept with his current girlfriend on the 1st date, and the have been together a little over a year now. I don't know if I am really feeling this girl, but if I am I don't know why or what to say to her about it. She told me she would have never had a fuc*k buddy because she thought it meant you were a hoe, but after she got hurt really bad form her last relationship, it just became easy to do because it became her defense mechanism. Now that we have been at it for a few months, and I know why she and I are doing it the way we are I don't look at her the same (like a hoe). She has never asked me for anything, and has been able to handle herself with our "freaking" arrangement (by not becoming attached, I think). She has been the same way since day one so I really don't know how she feels. Is it possible that I am becoming attached, if so what do I need to do. What did u do

Answer 1

Haha yea its a matter of course and your on the wrong side of the aggreement to. Yea your going to get attached come on now lol! How much and to what extent is going to depend on you and your situation. F-buddies is just a defense mechinism in itself to keep both parties from excepting any feelings which is impossiable. Unless you have some extreme detachment disorder and if you don't your screwed. Fact is you can't watch a TV show better yet have sex with out forming some sort of feelings about it. At the very basic your ether going to like or not. Now since were talking about a human being and not a tv show and were talking about sex and not sitting on your **** watching tv the feelings are going to be stronger. The problem your going to have is that your going to have an easier time excepting those feelings, her on the other hand is going to have a hard time. Your growing up while she is degression.... sorry but MTV's wrong and so is half are society. Of course you could just be a cold "player" but I doubt thats going to make it easier for you to sleep at night.