When I came home from work last night I caught my husband and babysitter laying in the bed together. I was stunned at what I was seeing and demanded that they both get up and get out. My husband claimed that nothing was going on. He says that our babysitter got into the bed with him because our children were afraid and uncomfortable because I wasn't home. He says that by our babysitter laying in the bed, it sooths the childrens nerves and makes them feel as if I am there with them. He says that she does it all the time and that I have nothing to worry about. Is this right? Should my husband lay in the bed with our babysitter when I am not home?? Help please!
2007-03-30 07:19:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you need to get another babysitter. The lying in bed is NOT for the children's comfort, it is for his. I can't believe that you hubby thinks you are naive enough to buy that lame excuse.
Does he honestly think that him lying in bed with another woman makes his children miss their mother less. bulls***t!!
2007-03-30 07:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tammi 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
HELLO!!! Fire the babysitter and keep a very close eye on hubby. If they have'nt done the deed yet, they will. You interupted. I am a mother of two and here to tell you that it would not in any way comfort them. It would confuse them and upset them because it wasn't mommy in the bed. You hubby is talking **it. If you believe him then you get what you deserve. Kick the sitter to the curb and start monitoring your hubby's work hours - the time he is away from home is the time that will be on his paycheck. Look through his cell phone. You can get online and view the bills with any number he is calling. Watch him... be lucky you caught them only laying there. That was going to go further. If this is a underaged girl... Tell her parents immediatley. All you have to do is call and leave the parents a message saying that you no longer need her services as she was caught laying bed with your hubby. That way the other end of that relationship will be monitored as well.
Good Luck.. Be smart and take care of this NOW.
OMG!! I didn't even catch that - what the hell is the babysitter doing there if the hubby is home!!! Get a life.
2007-03-30 07:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by The cat did it. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no longer basically is this a large fat lie that's some actual unwell habit in the event that they're telling the fact. No mom and father must be laying in a mattress bare with their baby. If all they had to do replaced into to sooth the boy, why are they bare? there's a superb purchase extra going at right here and you need to recuperate sparkling of it. Kick that perv and his ex to the shrink and phone ACS or youngster's facilities and record those creeps.
2016-11-25 00:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman wake up and smell the coffee! No one should be laying in the bed with YOUR husband. And he should get an oscar for coming up with that lame excuse. As women we will believe anything at times just to avoid the painful truth. Get rid of the babysitter and have her take your lying husband with her.
2007-03-30 08:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by puddin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not!!!! I'm sure your children realize that she is just the babysitter, but it is still portraying to them that it is ok for someone besides mommy to be on the bed with daddy. Sure it may be completely innocent for now but this is how things escalate into something more. And why is the babysitter still there if daddys home?? Bottom line-parent comes home the babysitter leaves.
2007-03-30 07:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by pandog 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am going to say that them laying in bed together is not a good idea! That could make her think things, even if that is not his intentions. I guess it all depends on how much you trust you marriage, and your babysitter. But from what I understand, its not a good idea. That may even confuse the kids more than not having you home.
2007-03-30 07:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Why is the babysitter still there when your husband is home? NO, they should not be laying there together. Get rid of this babysitter now!
2007-03-30 07:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Common Sense Dear
2007-03-30 07:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Stitch 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
As long as the babysitter is at-least 18 then you shouldn't have a problem with it. after all your husband can shower after and you can't tell any differance.. And btw great question..
2007-03-30 07:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by bluemist 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If only I could understand your motivation for such ridiculous
questions... sigh... you're always good for two point, but really....
To answer your question, no, you should not allow your imaginary husband to be in bed with your imaginary babysitter so that your imaginary children won't be afraid (I think I would be more afraid if you actually had children).
Now will you stop?
2007-03-30 07:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 10⤊ 2⤋