should i stay with my husband he cheats and beats on me and never goes to work or give me money
2007-03-30 07:17:11 · 28 answers · asked by T GIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you already know the answer to this question.
2007-03-30 07:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your options? What happens to you when you leave? Think that over first so you don't have to crawl back and make it even worse. If he cheats on you, that's bad enough, but if he also beats you, you've got problems tnat could escalate. This guy is abusive and deserves to be in jail so at least you don't have to worry about a roof over your head. Your situation takes planning and consideration of who leaves, who stays and how you're going to make it, but you relly need to avoid the beatings. That's baaaaaad.!
2007-03-30 14:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay you have a sickness. No one should stay and put up with those conditions. They will only get worse. Get out of there before they do. You never know what will come next. It could be physical abuse or worse. Get ou now and do'nt look back.
2007-03-30 14:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! do you really feel you deserve that? studies have proven that once a man hits you, he WILL do it again even after counceling. then there is always the old adage of once a cheat, always a cheat, get out of there. here is a website for more information and support:
http://www.ndvh.org/
it's not going to be easy but you will be thankful later. i wish you the best.
2007-03-30 14:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by royalldybg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why would u want to stay with a man, if there is no gain? just heartache and fear. whenever your abused u need to get out of it as soon as u can, or end up brokenhearted, bitter and old before your time. u will wake up one day and realize u totally wasted your life on someone who did nothing but hurt u.
2007-03-30 14:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear It depend on your situtaition, what is your age? how many children you have? how old they are? why he do that?
Solve your problem in the following context:
1) what is the real problem?
2) What is the cause of problem?
3) What are the possible solutions?
4) What is the best solution?
GO AHEAD!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-30 14:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by sergoshiyan101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out and get far away from him. You do not deserve this ... no woman does. Sounds as if he is controlling you ... very scary. Try calling the Domestic Violence hotline ... there are so many nice people there who will help you and give you advice. I know from personal experience.
2007-03-30 14:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should stay in a relationship where they are abused. There are always other options, you can check out domestic violence programs that can help you deal with your situation and find a way out.
2007-03-30 14:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by jenlynn42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Prince Charming...
2007-03-30 14:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by mrs O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, stay with the man why don't cha ...hell have some babies and teach them to be the exact same way as the both of ya. Grow up!
2007-03-30 14:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stay, if all that you say is going on? You can be happier with someone else, do you not agree?
2007-03-30 14:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋