Why does God....?

Question

Why does God give people who dont deserve it a break and leave the rest of us to suffer and hurt to the point where we feel alone and we feel like no one cares about what happens to us anymore? Why does it feel like he wants me to die?

Answer 1

When you meet him you could ask LOL

Answer 2

Uh...Billie darlin, God gives no one more than they can handle.
What looks like a break to you and I may very well be all they deserve. There is a judgement, and it is quite possible that the small breaks in the here and now is all they will ever have for all eternity. They are to be pitied. The others that have the breaks have probably worked very hard behind the scenes for what they have. And again that may be all they get. There is much more than "the breaks" in anyone's life.
As for our own feelings of loss, and loneliness, you can be assured that if such a vast and huge Deity marks the fall of a simple sparrow : then rest assured you are seen and loved by this majestic being we worship as GOD.
The suffering we go through is a very good training field for the rest of our lives Billie. Like it or not we can handle our problems, and we do every time. He has provided help in these times of sorrow; they are the family, and friends we have to get us through.
You should know and remember that no one is given more than they can handle darlin. Whatever is on your back I think you can handle it with aplomb.

Answer 3

Long suffering is one of the ten fruits of the spirit. Look at the inside of the people getting all of the breaks. Some of them deserve it for a change and then some obviously don't. I am lucky to be alive, although suffering is a daily event. It took me along time to learn that I've actually been given a gift and to let go of some of the anger I had. I am only human , however, and from time to time I wish I'd GET a break. i try and have faith. That's really all we have in the end is faith, hope and love. P.S. We don't want you to die so I ask everyone to lift you in prayer right now!

Answer 4

God doesn't want you to die. God wants you to live so He can use you to spread the good news to people who haven't heard the good news yet. God doesn't give a break to people who don't deserve it. God doesn't make people suffer but He does love everyone of His children including you. Your not alone as God is with you.

Answer 5

You only THINK God wants you to die. Many people care about you. Pick up the phone right now and call a friend/relative and tell them how you feel. You are not alone.

Answer 6

I'm saying something you've heard many times. God doesn't want you to die. believe me I know what it feels like to be alone in the world where it seems like no one cares or you don't exist. I'm going through that right now to be honest. some one I loved very much has chosen to make me feel like I don't exist. God's blessing them which doesn't seem to make seance. but to be honest. there are times when God draws his hand from you to see how badly you want him. he's the one you need to seek. when It seems like we are all alone all we really need to do is turn around and you'll see he's been there the whole time. God loves you very much and wants only the best for you. "For I know the plans I have for you..." Those were God's words. he doesn't want to cause us pain. Give it some time and seek God harder than you ever have...you'll soon see you're not alone

Answer 7

Many times, it seems that those who get ahead are the jerks who don't care about other people. They take what they want, regardless of whom they hurt.

The fact that you're asking this question shows that you are a more sensitive person than that.

I don't believe in the God you describe in the first place. If there were an arbiter of justice, I'd agree he isn't doing a very good job.

Answer 8

I don't think he gives us breaks, I mean not becuase we are christians means that we are going to leave a happy and peaceful life. I think that when we go through trials we realize how much faith we really have on God, and sometimes we may feel like you are feeling, but don't give up, see it as a learning experience where you can strenghten your faith in the lord. God does help us out, but sometimes he just lets us go through stuff in order to learn, or to realize our own mistakes. And he does not punish he just lets it happen for a reason. But I think the strongest thing you can do is pray about it, just tell him what ever it is that you are feeling, don't be afraid to use bad words, I mean just treat him as if he was your friend, but also listen to him, becuase prayer isn't just about talking to him it's also about listening, and if you don't know how to, then just tell him to help you.

Answer 9

Because there is no God as such who just sits there and says "Righty oh,I'm going to give you cancer and oh yeh you'll get hit by a car".Life is full of bad,scary things that happen to us all.Not just you or those people you say don't deserve it.Things just happen through accidents,bad decisions or someone else inflicts them .How do you know that these other people don't deserve a break?Just try to be strong and realize that bad things do happen.To all of us.It's just a part of living in this amazing,wild world.

Answer 10

First of all, God doesn't want you to die! Jesus said, "I have come that they might have life, and have it more abundantly."

Secondly, the questions you are asking have been posed by people for thousands of years.
Read the story of Job, in the Bible, and the Book of Ecclesiastes. Both go into some detail regarding the capriciousness of human suffering.

Answer 11

He does this so that no man can know his own future.

If you feel like nobody cares, why dont you care more so that people may learn from your example. The torment you feel right now is in your own head and whatever you are feeling right now, believe me that there are millions of people that have it worse than you that im sure would trade lives with you in a second.