My best friend of 7 years passed away last saturday of cancer. She was only 17. Her visitation is tonight at 6 and im not sure what to wear or how to feel about the situation. One day im completely depressed and the other im ok. If you have experience with this, please inform on what to do. Thanks
2007-03-30 06:51:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
O man do I ever.... its not going to be simple to lay it out for you in this answer I've learn but I'll give you some ways to look at it that might help you better.
One thing you represent something great she did here why she was alive, feel good for that! You are a part of her, if there is anything close to immortality in this world, hers is in you. Represent! You guys had 7 years of history, of love, of tears, yes it hurts to loss that, but don't you dare forget how strong it makes you! Because every time you do its going to burn
Second don't cry! Be happy, believe, not in a god, but that with death comes peace, come truth! She wouldn't want you to kill yourself over her but I gaurtee you she would love to know you'll live for her!
Thrid thing, don't be afraid to get out there and tell hers and yours story. Just because she can't tell hers, doesn't mean you can tell it for her, Shoot You Need Too!!!
2007-03-30 07:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋