2007-03-30 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by carenab52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't. He was a first love, but there is a big reason that we are not together.
You may want to deal with those feelings for your first love, so that you don't end up hurting the person that you are currently married to.
2007-03-30 05:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people romanticise their first relationship - they compare all others against it. Sometimes they even lose sight of why they're not together anymore. Just remember there's a reason for everything in life. Don't focus on the past - learn from it and try to make the future better because of it.
2007-03-30 12:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I was in lust and not in love. Love is very different at times in our lives. The first guy I thought I was inlove with hurt me terribly. He cheated on me and I always lived a fairy tale that men did not cheat if they loved you. Keep in mind I was 19 at the time, i am 32 now and i know my husband is my first love. Our bond is very strong and I love being with him. Sometimes I hate to go to work just so i can be with him. We make all the decisions together and well you know.....If I ever say that other guy i would just be proud that he cheated or I would have never continued with life with a closed mind and then met my real first love who opened my mind, my heart, my eyes and my soul.
2007-03-30 12:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by sofiedriskell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Im married. Before I met my husband, every time I would see my first love, my heart would RACE and I could hardly stand it. Over time we have become great friends and I really LOVE his girlfriend. She and I are even better friends than I am with my first love. I know its weird... but now when I see him, its not complicated at all. Im just friends with him and thats a great road to be on.
2007-03-30 12:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think of my first love, there have even been times while I've been married that i was sad i wasn't with him. i did meet him a few times to come to realize that we had a moment in time - the past. now, as adults we do not mix, we live in different worlds. also, i felt guilty for meeting him even though it was in public and nothing physically happened. i learned it's best to keep it alive in my head as a fond memory and focus on my marriage because my husband is the man i love today.
2007-03-30 14:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by sherman supporter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course first love is hard to forget when all is innoncent and sweet! But what is the reason you still think of yours? Is your current marriage not ideal?
I often met my ex as we share similar lifestlye but we never talk...we always pass each other too quickly...but enough to turn my head to recognise each other and mumbled to ourselves each others names...this is a sweet romantic encounter...but well we are ex for a reason...life goes on...especially when you are married.
2007-03-30 12:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Humble Learner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i thought about him a lot over the years. not b/c i still wanted him but just b/c i wondered what he was doing with his talent.(awesome guitarist). just so happens, he was doing the same. he called last yr and we met for lunch. i gave him a big hug and we talked. i was disappointed that he wasn't playing anymore and he's had a tough go of it,due to his own mistakes. we still talk now and then. it was great to see him but i'm glad i'm with my husband.
2007-03-30 12:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋