Who should I blame for hating my life? - God, my parents, etc?

Question

I blame God. Why would he give me this crappy life that I don't really want?

Answer 1

Blame the chemical imbalance in your brain.

Answer 2

Do you not have two feet that work? How about at least one hand? Can you breath alright? How about your brain? Can you remember things well? A lot of people don't have it as good as you, yet they do not poison the air with complaints. Have you thanked God for the gifts you have? or are they being wasted in bitterness. I know that you can type well enough to get your ideas across. You can write a book. Got any good ideas? Do you have a hobby? Are you good at anything? Good enough to teach others how to do it.

If you don't know how to do anything, who's fault is that? God's? The devil's? Your parents' fault? The library's? (for not carrying the right instruction books?) Your teacher's fault? Your parents could have been to blame at one time, (for not teaching you to take responsibility for your own inaction,) but to continue in it, is your own choice, every day. Blaming others will not fix the problem, just compound it.

Start every day by writing down 5 things that you are thankful for. How about: Cool water, Ice cream, the smell and the warmth of a crackling fire on chilly evenings, singing birds in the morning, (your) friend, rainbows, trees to shade in the summer heat. The sun to warm a cold winter morning, that memory, of being a child, carefree and innocent, lovers on the beach; holding hands...I'm sure you can add to that list.

Answer 3

I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. But I also hope you can focus on at least one tiny positive aspect of your life and channel your energy in that direction. Don't lay blame... that just eats at the soul and makes things worth. Also.... ask yourself? Have I been making wise choices in how my life is going? Do I have any ownership here. Do I have the ability to change the way the wind is blowing?

Answer 4

First off, don't blame God. He is the one that is carrying you right now. Stop and take a good look at your life and find some good points. Pray and pray again.

Answer 5

you should blame yourself, you are what your life is. you make it crappy no one else. you cannot let others dictate what kind of life you have, and how much you enjoy it. commit suicide if you hate it that much, otherwise get a new plan for life, and stop complaining, ever hear that old indian proverb?
"I complained because I had no shoes, until I met a man with no feet"
things can always be worse.

Answer 6

You should blame everyone for your crappy life. I mean after all you have no control over your own life. C'mon man, life is what YOU make it.

Answer 7

I would start with your parents - but then you got to get over it - and just realize that YOU are the one who is giving yourself this crappy life...

Answer 8

Blame yourself or change your life. God DID give you the power to do something about it.

Answer 9

In my opinion....you make life what it is. You have options. If you need help, go get it. Youll feel alot better. You have the power to change your life....you just have to take those steps.

God didnt do this to you. Your parents made the choice to have you. But its still up to you....to make some changes, to make your life more enjoyable.*

Answer 10

Its the old saying, "You lie in your own bed." Blame no-one.
You are the only one that can change it. Reach out, their are so many opportunity's out there. Take the leap. You will be surprised what you can find.